...for the uninitiated or those in need of a refresher.

A woman wanting you isn't the favor to you that you've been told it is your entire life via societal framing and cultural narrative. The beginning of a man reclaiming his mind and autonomy from societal doctrine is understanding that he will encounter women in this world who are attractive and attracted to him but undeserving of touching or lying with him.

Never forget that men, too, have a right to qualify our partners, even though society tries to convince us that we don't and works overtime to guilt trip us out of realizing or exercising that right.

And it's ok if some women don't make the cut, regardless of how they or anyone else may try to frame you for looking out for yourself and taking yourself back from them. It's ok to tell women no, and their momentary discomfort is certainly worth your long term peace of mind.

For those who insist on continuing to indulge and pursue, qualify her. Watch everything, from her demeanor around your friends and hers, her attitude towards you in front of people, how she responds to the crises you face, etc.

Doesn't matter who she is, how she looks, how many men pander to her because of weakness, how doped up with arrogance she is by the attention she gets on account of their weakness, the objective truth is that she is no more valuable than you are. Qualify her, and don't feel a bit of shame doing it.