Read this account from an actress. Sure, the guy she's describing is scum. But she only gave him the time of day because of who he was, and what he could do for her. She was, on some level, a willing victim.

782017 · 2017-10-24T06:07:20+00:00

Imagine that some gross, overweight, older woman approaches you and tells you she thinks you might be a good fit for an amazing job opening she has. She shows you proof that she's in a position to offer you this job, and under the pretext of an interview process, she slowly pushes your boundaries, ultimately culminating in an attempt to use you for sex.

In this scenario, did you do anything wrong? If so, what? Would you consider yourself to be a "willing victim" of her sexual harassment?

bsutansalt · 2017-10-24T07:04:09+00:00

If you're willing, then you're not a victim.

The reality is that it's a euphemism for not having the willpower to say "no". At worst it's a life lesson to stand up for yourself and voice what you really want, or don't want if that be the case. Many if not most of the women coming forward with these stories are just trying to avoid responsibility for their part in the transactional sex that took place, or would have if they'd allowed it.

I hated spending time with him, but I maintained the pretense that I enjoyed his company because I was an aspiring actress and I wanted to be a real actress.

And there you have it. She really is no different than a gold digger, but instead of using him for his money she was using him for his status as a filmmaker. And just like guys who are with gold diggers he was trying to capitalize on what she was offering up in exchange for access to his status. This is a symbiotic relationship, not some perv creeping on some random chick. People tend to overlook this aspect of these high status guys fucking wannabe starlets--the women are getting something out of it too! What this woman is really doing is bitching about having to fulfill her half of the unspoken social contract to get what he has to offer, and instead wants to have her cake and eat it too.

This whole thing is an exercise in feminine imperative wanting society to defend women from these guys by making them hand over their benefits of their status and the women not have to do anything in return.

2017-10-24T06:35:09+00:00

When a man talks about masturbation and sex to a woman, he wants to have monkey sex with her.

wiseprogressivethink · 2017-10-24T05:50:14+00:00

I was actually just disappointed how poorly written that was

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