This isnt a rant post. We all have our crosses to bear. Just smthg i observed over the last years.

i was seperated from my kids 4 years ago and they moved with their mother 500km far away to another country. I had to spend almost my whole fortune for journeys and court, in a foreign country where i dont know the language. The female judge "allowed" me to visit my kids one weekend every month and 7 days vacation together. This was a big win for me, cause i know out there are men who never see their kids again.

The only empathy i get is from other men. It already went this far that one guy (a stranger i met few minutes before) said that he is "sorry for me". you can see it touches them and they start asking about it.

Women on the other hand dont care at all. Most overhear it, others told me that it isnt that far away and i shouldnt shit my pants. so they indirectly tell me to "man up". This didnt happen only once . . .