A lot of women I talk to want a 3 dimensional men. He needs hobbies a stable job a plan for the future and a way of taking care of her. While a lot of men settle for 2 dimensional women aside from physical attraction your good to go. For example a room full of women talking about there S/O sounds like this "Matthew just landed a new job that might just take us abroad I'm so excited" or "Luis is so sweet he surprised me today with chocolate in class" while the male equivalent sounds like this "Jessica has a fat ass and gives good head" or "You got with Melissa dam Daniel she's cute". My question is has anyone genuinely been interested in a women for her hobbies or goals? Or is it just looks, many women I've dated had no goals, no hobbies provided nothing in my life but freedom from loneliness honestly out of all my ex gf the only thing I can remember great about them was good personality and nice smile (nice smile is just a physical attraction). So what I mean by mental attraction is if you never saw the face of girls you once dated, or girls your interested in now would their goals and accomplishments be enough to lure you in? A lot of women I know lack this form of interest to me