So I have a pretty limited post history, this is an alt account for me to look for advice during my divorce. Just wanted to share another example of me screwing up to illistrate you should GYOW and not repeat my mistakes.

After my divorce I dated for a bit. I am a decently attractive guy with a good social circle and job so it was easy to get dates but nothing really clicked. I met a few people I kept in contact with after some dates or ONSs and that's leads me to today.

About 6 months after my divorce I deployed overseas for work. Think less a combat zone like afganistan and more a remote out post in the middle of nowhere where I am not in any kind of real action. I took a trip to Europe a few months in and was miserable so when trying for another short trip I figured I would see if any of the connections I made back in the States wanted to fly out and meet me. One woman thought it would be fun so we agreed to meet, share the hotel costs and split everything else down the middle.

The first few days were great then for some reason she got distant, didn't want to talk or spend much time together, eventually we decided to spend the days apart doing our own thing and just share the rooms.

Today when she comes back she has a guy with her who says hi and leaves. She booked this hotel so I'm stuck for the night but in the morning we are supposed to catch a train to another city, I will be catching a flight at the airport instead. Good luck with last minute reservations.