A question about ghosting

Morb357 · 2017-09-16T23:54:38+00:00

I've ghosted everyone from my past. Nobody from high school or college even knows I'm alive and that's how I want it. How do they feel? I don't give a shit. When I move on, I move on. I don't remain "friends". I don't forgive and forget. I don't keep in touch. I leave and never look back.

TB409 · 2017-09-17T01:35:19+00:00

I've always ghosted people before I knew what ghosting was. I had to reflect on this one day when i was super baked. I find the act of just disappearing romantic to be honest. Not like a relationship romantic but like the human experience romantic. Ive developed a habit to be like one of those characters on TV that you want to stay a while and get to know but they end of disappearing and reappearing at random times. I used to show up at friend's and girlfriends houses unexpectedly and they loved it, always happy to see me, always calling me to hang out. I guess I loved the attention that came with it too. I've always been fascinated with human behavior/paychology so that might play into why I love surprising people so much as well. Now I've gone complete incognito from everyone in my past. People grow apart, I've taken on a lot of mental hobbies if you will from MGTOW/redpill to Buddhism and trying to really understand why I'm here on this giant blue spaceship in the middle of fucking no where. Past friends and relationships have also moved on to different paths. To be honest, im pretty happy taken on the role of a ghost. I've grown out of love with the idea of attention. I love being alone. Ive ultimately found self love.

I hope that gave you some insight.

gods_bones · 2017-09-17T07:18:55+00:00

Women hate ghosting because only they are allowed to use it. Every time a woman gets a taste of Equality, she runs away screaming in horror.

s0ma_ · 2017-09-17T01:17:17+00:00

What is your experience?

ghosting, to me, is about the ultimate expression of will power;
when i enact my will, in my life, things happen. i live in
such a way, that others' will, do not ever adversely affect me.

when a man stops spouting his opinions and stops caring to hear
that of others; he becomes free. when he looks inwards and
refines himself; he is enlightened.

when he returns to free others... he saves himself

Fussbus · 2017-09-17T07:45:26+00:00

The thing is that ghosting is an inherently selfish thing to do. You don't actually care about them, so you choose not to go through the emotional dance to try to give them closure, or protect their feelings, or whatever. You are done.

It's pretty MGTOW imo.

karzin · 2017-09-17T10:47:56+00:00

ghosting and soft next are very powerfull tool against women. Basically because you cut down your attention toward them, and oh boy do they hate it.

Hereforthekek · 2017-09-17T07:09:47+00:00

i am currently ghosting my parents and relatives. i cant and wont deal with insanity, no matter what.

comptejete · 2017-09-17T12:52:12+00:00

They prefer to be insulted than ignored, because negative attention is better than no attention at all, and with the latter they have no means of retaliation or absolution.

squidracer · 2017-09-17T04:32:33+00:00

I tried ghosting a girl last month.

She showed up knocking on my door.

secret626 · 2017-09-17T10:01:32+00:00

Ghosting is freedom. Eat healthily, stay fit, start a biz, enjoy your single life with random girls/escorts.

Title	A question about ghosting
Author	JStheHammer
Upvotes	13
Comments	13
Date	September 16, 2017 11:42 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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