So one of the newer guys i work with managed to bring up in conversation that he knocked up his girlfriend.

As per my norm i try to sneak a few red pills in to younger guys and push the envelope as far as i can if they seem receptive to the truths.

Anyways as the conversation goes i try to convince him to take a paternity test just as a back up, he claims he knows its his because "he took her virginity"

Now maybe i'm just old and cynical but finding a virgin over the age of 18-20 in america in this age of sexual liberation and young girls starting as early as 12 if not sooner and i have to wonder, realllllly wonder 1. was she really a virgin? 2. if not how did she manage to trick him?

Anyways as the conversation goes, come to find out she also magically got pregnant with that first time... now i know its very much possible but somehow redflags are just flying in droves in my head right now.

As the conversation continues, come to find out that while he wants to have the kid as many of us here probably would likewise (save for the fact that women aint worth it anymore) he has no love for the soon to be his baby mama (?) also apparently she had performed multiple pregnancy tests in his presence, asked considering that i know some women sell "positive" results or their urine to force a positive result... got me wondering though, do they sell "legit" pregnancy tests that will show positive even if a woman isnt pregnant?

So i asked him why he's staying with her, come to find out she's threatened to abort the kid and commit suicide multiple times now to keep him from leaving. sirens and warning bells now blaring in full blast.

Ive told him he needs to make sure the next time she pulls that he calls some professional help to "prevent" her from potentially commiting suicide and also to cover his ass in the event she "gets serious" about it so that he isn't on the hook for keeping silent.

Told him he NEEDS to get a restraining order on her and to make copies in triplicate in varying locals of the text message chains also as a CYA type thing.

So this talk was yesterday, broach the subject again today and apparently they have "made up"

Sad part is he thinks he can win custody of the kid given some of the crazy texts she's sent him should he break up with her... it's important to note that i currently am living in california... so yeah... tried to explain to him how one sided family courts are in most of america.

So frustrating seeing young men run headlong down such destructive paths...