To Men going your own way...

roxon89 · 2018-05-14T02:43:58+00:00

Wife cheated after 18 years of marriage. She had it all. Gorgeous house. Thriving business. Great kids. And she tossed it all to ride the cock carousel. I gave her everything and for whatever reason, it simply wasn’t enough. And I realized then that for the overwhelming majority of women, it’s never enough. They’re never happy or contented enough. There’s always something “wrong” or “inadequate” so I just decided that sex is simply not worth all the hassle that comes along with dealing with women. As such, what do I need a woman for? I can cook, clean, do my laundry, decorate my house etc etc.

2018-05-14T01:55:01+00:00

Femininity is awesome! What happened to it? Oh... why don't we like hypergamy and the fact that women find 80% of us below the 50 percentile...

What was your question again?

fripsidelover9110 · 2018-05-14T02:03:06+00:00

> Did it have something to do with the women in your lives, eg. your mum or sister, if so, what exactly dod they do?

Quite a lot.

Just one example.

The moment my elder sister (house wife) so calmly (but in a serious tone) said to me in the car, "I would be so glad if my husband died, as long as I could keep the same income he was earning for me. I wouldn't mind at all, really...". It wasn't a dirty, silly joke. She was serious.

And I was appalled at her confession as her husband was not anything like hopeless shitty asshole, (like cheating on my sister, doing emotional/physical abuses, having drinking or gambling addiction or any other serious moral/ethical/behavoiral problem), but just a normal man with high-income job (accountant) and average looking guy in terms of sexual attractiveness. None of her complaints about her husband - like coming home late occasionally being drunken - (Even if all of them were factually true) was serious enough to have such hatred of him. It was shocking even more so because, as far as I knew, my elder sister was a reasonably kind, loving elder sister to me, and just an ordinary, normal girl.

I was really at a loss for words upon hearing her confession.

I just listened to her, not saying anything, at the time... because I didn't know what to say. One of the moments I felt horrified at women and marriage.

Upstream-moonbeam · 2018-05-14T02:10:01+00:00

Dig around in the sub...do a little research...reflect on friends family and your self...reflect on society and the the way things are being projected and why...That’s only if you’re serious tho.

q_alt · 2018-05-14T02:58:05+00:00

Femininity isnt the problem. It's the system which has tipped the seesaw so far over that women now have free reign over the whole social dynamic between the two sexes and can completely destroy a mans potential through an accusation without evidence or divorce a man putting him in a cardboard box on the street corner as he chokes on child support payments.

That's why i'm mgtow :)

P.s. getting nagged by your wife sounds like shit too

goodbeertimes · 2018-05-14T06:28:12+00:00

Wife threw me out of house when I has a slight disability (minor spine problem that was addressed with Physiotherapy) and couldn't work for few months. Took house, children - poisoned them against me, savings and then filed a false 498/A case on me.

That was just a wake up call. I've realized the true nature of women, most of them. Vile, manipulative, lying, cunning, scheming gold diggers.

Could there be good women? Perhaps. Is there anyway you could know it before hand unless you try and get burnt? Nope. The risk is too great. Not worth the price. And association with them has questionable benefits - you hope to get companionship but you won't get. You will need to contend with constant nagging, bitching, never ending wants - they want what you have and also what the other woman has. Fuck that shit.

I won't even look at women now and life is smooth. And predictable.

EDIT:

It's not just my experiences but have seen many others. Few days ago, I made this post

I've got lot of stories on this section 498/A misuse. Here is one ~ few years ago. One of my neighbour, an introvert programmer (man A)who is as predictable as Japanese trains is all of a sudden slapped with this case by his wife. Here is the thing, you would find very few lawyers that would be willing to take men's case because it's first there is no way to win, second it's the most messy of all family court cases.

So he approached a Men's rights organization to represent him. They got him a lawyer and the case is in progress.

Unrelated to this, in the same neighborhood there was a domestic scuffle and the man (man B) was kicked out of the house. While mediation is going on, he stayed in our apartment's basement. Someone provided him with basics like a cot, sheets. Now, all of a sudden this man's wife makes a complaint in police station that her husband was molesting the daughter. That kind of behavior is unheard of and everyone was outraged. He was pleading that he didn't do anything of that sort and he loves his children (3 of them). He was thrown out of basement. His wife's family and relatives have come baying for his blood. He was lynched on streets in broad day light. Someone took him to the hospital and he died there.

Now, the lawyers representing the programmer became paranoid. They were apprehensive that his wife might file a false complaint of child molestation. They dropped the ball. No lawyer was willing to touch him with a 10 feet pole.

And if you are wondering what was the real story behind man B's wife? Well, it so happens that she started living with another man in 2 months after the incident. Apparently she was having an affair with him. She simply wanted to get rid of her husband and made a false accusation with the police.

its_a_fishing_show · 2018-05-14T01:58:47+00:00

Not really a MGTOW, but I feel femininity is an important force that exists beyond concrete definition.

That being said, as the chosen channels of this force, it pains me to see it shrugged aside by women as a deficit.

Senip69 · 2018-05-14T05:11:51+00:00

My story is similar to a lot of others- I worked hard and we had the house, 2 cars , 2 kids etc... she got sick about 4 years in and so had to leave work- I loved her so I did all I could to support our family and her through everything. Long story short- she never went back to work even when she recovered and eventually I got sick.

She started cheating and I even got told it was my fault- We broke up and I moved to another state. Now 3 years later i recovered my health, I’ve bought my own house and I feel happier than I have in years.

She goes from guy to guy..... it only lasts about as much time as it would take for them to see her true nature

DJDickJob · 2018-05-14T03:17:51+00:00

Toxic femininity is when a woman abandons her feminine nature/role in life and starts hating men and bitching constantly. Everything living on this planet serves a unique purpose, so when you reject your own biological programming, shit starts going downhill.

Itsbbbitch · 2018-05-14T05:27:06+00:00

Every woman on the planet is an expression of toxic femininity. Women cannot exist as anything more than parasites leeching off a healthy host (men).

gantz_au · 2018-05-14T10:16:57+00:00

Femininity doesn't turn me off. The idea of "toxic femininity" is just as stupid as "toxic masculinity." I don't see any of the women in my life like my mother and sister or the women in my past to be anything negative.

The reason why I went my own way is that I don't see any benefits in having a relationship with a woman. In my mid-20's I decided to make a big change in my life because I wasn't satisfied with where it was going...

So, I dumped my girlfriend, quit my job, moved away from where I lived and went back to uni to get a better education. After 4 years, I graduated from university and got myself a job within a year. It didn't take long after that for me to get a nice car, a new house built near where I work, and have all the time and money in the world to do all the things that make my life enjoyable.

Why add a woman to that? Women don't bring any benefit to your life.

DangZagnut · 2018-05-14T04:40:52+00:00

Not a thing to do with that. There wasn't a "reason" like I'm "mad" at women?

Typical framing.

BlackHaz3 · 2018-05-14T16:51:47+00:00

Like every other man here, got shot in the back and left for dead after unfortunate events. Almost off’d myself and now I’m just living a happy drama free life, working to build a career and mind you that I was only 19 when this happened I am 21yrs old now and pretty soon this sub is going to start seeing more and more youngsters like myself here.

tdh792 · 2018-05-14T02:53:57+00:00

Constant realization that they are THAT stupid.
Holy shit "THAT" stupid? no way that's impossible! Nope.. "THAT" stupid.

Thebigstill · 2018-05-14T03:37:38+00:00

To borrow from one of my favorite movies, the slave is the one that would answer the question.

ilikerelish · 2018-05-14T20:19:06+00:00

I didn't and don't need anything or anyone to treat me poorly to know a bad situation when I see it. It's also not hard to see the truth in many if not most of the concepts being shared within MGTOW. Nothing turned me off of femininity, I am actually married. The thing that I am turned off to is modern women and the system that caters to them at the expense of men. Some of these guys responding are talking about some of the very things that that put me of interaction with modern women. If you need more examples go have a look at posts in Men's rights, or in this sub.

2018-05-14T20:49:37+00:00

Meh; women were just being women, and I got tired of it.

2018-05-14T20:56:32+00:00

Divorce and child support forced me into homelessness. I had my car repoed, and spent 13 months living in a 1998 ford explorer through hot summer and cold winter (Midwest). I spent all of that time saving and working two jobs, showering at planet fitness, getting a hotel room once a month just to remember what a bed feels like. I was able to finally get an apartment, and fast forward 8 years I have my own condo, make 60k a year, and realized that dating in the now will only result in the same. I live for me and for me I live. I go my own way now and until I can go no longer.

2018-05-14T21:15:55+00:00

It's not about women at all, it's about how society treats men. That dictates how men live in relation to women, but it's not about them at all, actually.

Your question actually shows your complete misunderstanding of MGTOW.

Title	To Men going your own way...
Author	Totes-Hippo-Critical
Upvotes	3
Comments	30
Date	May 14, 2018 1:52 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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