She was bed ridden, the guy loves her. He took care of her for 10 years. She loses 340 lbs and decides she can do better than him. This guy looked young before she stressed him out and he simply liked partying. She found the show to take care of her meanwhile the guy wastes his own expenses hoping to be somewhat of a chad and she rejects him. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jj0KmUh4wfM&t=198s