I buy groceries approximately twice a month. Every now and then I see someone with a sign asking for financial assistance.
I never give money unless I'm getting something back, such as fundraising chocolate. I tell them "no" on my way in to the store, purchase an extra item, or two, and then give them said item/s on my way out.
They are grateful for the gesture. Every once in a while the person disappears so I go home with a huge jar of peanut butter and bread.
Today was different.
I saw a woman, who is about 20-25 years old, with a newborn strapped to her. She wasn't handicapped or disabled in any way. Not overweight or resembled any form of drug abuse. She was panhandling with a cardboard sign outside of the store.
The thing that bothered me is that she is able-bodied, very young, looks like she showered within the past 24-hours, and decided to make this her daily effort towards income-gaining.
Honestly, I would not have even given her food. She was too "together" for my sniff test.
I did see a guy give her money as I walked by though- the kind that folds. I don't know her story, just reporting from what I saw.
Have you seen women panhandle before who you can clearly see isn't destitute? Divorce verdicts don't count.
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