Tired of women doing this

KneeDeepThought · 2018-04-27T00:20:00+00:00

Women are indecisive for one reason: plausible deniability. Social status is literally a life-and-death thing in their biological programming, and the loss of social status by making an incorrect decision could mean social ostracization, explusion from your tribe, and dying alone in the snow when you're thrown out of the cave.

At least, that's how her genetic programming sees it. How to avoid this? Easy, don't make any big decisions! That way nothing is ever your fault and you get to join the cool kids in acting all judgy and bitchy if anyone ever gets a call wrong. This increases your social standing, which gives you a dopamine hit and reinforces the behaviour.

Basically, you're never going to override the genetic programming here, just understand it and then tell her where you're going for dinner. If she wants to eat, she'll get in the car and STFU, while silently thanking you for making the call.

Ed: if she doesn't show up for a date one of two things happened: she got a better deal, or she showed your profile to her girlfriends and they downvoted you. Again, it's all about preserving or advancing her social standing. But, don't tolerate that shit.

zach216 · 2018-04-27T00:16:16+00:00

Give it time, in a few months, maybe years; you'll look back at this post and chuckle. You'll pour a drink and cheers the fact that you made it through your early twenties, the dangerous years, without doing anything stupid.

NoCuckIsh007 · 2018-04-27T01:01:00+00:00

Hey man. A year ago I had a similar mentality, except I would get depressed about it. Btw, let me preface by saying that I'm an 19 year old virgin. However, nowadays, I'm in no rush to get into a relationship. I'm actually very scared to be in one or to even play the game. I have several reasons: 1. Unfaithfulness: it seems to be socially acceptable for a woman to cheat on her boyfriend/husband. I don't believe in that, or practices that encourage such behavior (i.e. cuckoldry). 2. Dates: I don't mind going on dates if I'm actually gonna get a chance at the girl AND if the girl turns out to be somewhat cool. the big issue i have is being taken advantage for a free meal and then being thrown in the friend zone. 3. College: I'm in college and I'm currently taking pre-requisite classes for Pharmacy school. I want to stay focused on that. It is also my key out of the city in which I currently reside, which i dislike immensely. 4. Games/Shit Tests: need I explain more about this? this is SUPER ANNOYING. only a beta male would defend this type of shit. Emotionally mature women don't do this. However, there aren't many (I.e. The "NAWALT Unicorns"). Even when I have rejected girls in the past, they have shit tested me (I guess to use as a shaming tactic or what not, I got no idea tbh).

However, on a very important note, I don't claim to be a MGTOW. But I feel like the "bigoted" MGTOW subreddit is WAYYYY MORE OPEN MINDED than most other subreddits. That's why I have been posting a lot here.

PS: "bigoted," "Issa" joke.

frikabg · 2018-04-27T02:27:19+00:00

I don't know why you are asking us about an advice of how to deal with women. The huge majority of us went MGTOW because THERE IS NO WAY to deal with them. It is a simple fact.

I am sorry you have hard time but asking this sub for advices of how to get women on board is wrong. We tell people what women are and can explain their nature in order for you to understand that you have to avoid them to save yourself(simply because of lack of any other ways out) there is no other way out there is no other solution.

Women are selfish and entitled to their core there is no 'fixing' this there is no cure and there is literally no hope because that is what they are :|

Title	Tired of women doing this
Author	zach216
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	April 27, 2018 12:09 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8f7fju/tired_of_women_doing_this/
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