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I'm out. Thanks, guys.
[–]JakBlack12348 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck off thot, nobody here cares.
[–]ChrisBrownApologist5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL another cunt gets played by Chad.
Fuck you.
[–]Marque016 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Single mom :)
[–]buff_minorcan2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So after the divorce and 2 kids it's a new man you love? Is that correct?
[–]casra8880 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Well, that's your side. I wonder what his side of this is???
[–]Heyyouwhatsup35[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Just for one minute, think that there can be decent people on opposite sides of the genders. People who are kind and caring. But I guess this forum is to release frustrations, have your own place to vent. I get it, and I'm out.
[–]casra888-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I simply asked, I wonder what his side of this is??? There's always 2 sides. Are you denying that? Or are you saying that only you should be listened to? I'd be very curious to hear what you have to say.
[–]Heyyouwhatsup35[S] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Is it impossible that there are seriously good, kind decent woman out there, that are not materialistic and want to be in a solid relationship? I never cared about money; just enough that we can pool our paychecks and live well together.
[–]Hypogamy0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your comments are overflowing with manipulative red flags. Most MGTOW have come to the conclusion that women simply can't engage with men without instinctively using these tactics and over and over that's proven right.
[–]ChrisBrownApologist-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is it impossible that it's impossible?
[–]casra888-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
No. It's not impossible. But, looking at women's actions over the past 50 years increasingly make that improbable. Men are not responsible for the behaviors and decisions that women have been making for 50 years. You have equal rights. When are you going to fight for men to have equal rights?
[–]Heyyouwhatsup35[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I cannot speak for all women. I've always encouraged a relationship between our kids and their dad. Even when he had a girlfriend and made them second place. I hate men paying for me. I'm not a hooker. I don't need men paying for me. I am not anti-male. I enjoy men being men and am not trying to be one. There are women screwing with men. But there are men screwing with women, too. Not just alpha men. I know a lady whose husband cheated on her for years. And he was definitely not an alpha. I understand that the trees can't be seen for the forest. But it's the individual trees that make the forest. And there are decent women out there.
As for wanting alphas, yes women are attracted to attractive men And vice versa. But I never cared about money. Just someone healthy minded. Anyway, it's easier to say, all of them suck. And I know how much a women can hurt a man. Believe me, I know. So, I don't blame many men feeling this way. But it's a shame. I've always loved male energy and when a man opens the door for me and is polite (though I never expect them to) it is very much appreciated. A chivalrous male is a beautiful thing. But I understand how the general climate sours it for all. Especially in big cities.
[–]NeverNeverLandIsNow5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think the problem is not that many of us actually think there are no good women but that there is no way to really know if you found one and the risks for men are so high that many of us are just not willing to take the risk anymore because if you are wrong the effects on your life can be devastating.
Sometimes opting out is the only sane move, sucks if you are a good woman in today's climate but that is how it goes. I doubt relationships will ever go back to what they were though as too much water under the bridge for that, plus as men experience living life on their own terms I doubt many will ever want things to go back the way they were with women as that now seems like a sick type of relationship when viewed from afar.
[–]casra8880 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ok, that's you. So what? Who killed off chivalry? Women. When are you going to march and demand that men get equality?
[–]Heyyouwhatsup35[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
When's the march? But seriously, if a man is treated badly and not allowed to see his kids, you think women sit around saying "yessss!" Girls, we got another one! No. People are still people. You cannot possibly say there are no pedophiles, abusers, etc. both in the male and female gender, although generally it's the males who get called out on things more. But if a man is refused visitation with his kids, I don't think that's okay for the father or the kids.
When I see any woman getting any kind of extra change that doesn't go to the kids (unless she married a very rich man and this was part of a pre-nup) I think to myself "why can't she get off her fat ass and work?" Unless she has a disability and there is an agreement or the kids are too small for viable daycare, that's what I think. And women are required to pay child support now too, if the kids are primarily with the dad. Whether it's enforced properly by either the dad or she avoids it by changing jobs, that's a different question. But there are those in both genders.
There are also those that have been hurt by a parent of the opposite gender or a romantic interest and now have an interest in getting revenge. And many many women have been hurt by players. And looks do not necessarily make a player. Any man who's got game can be a player. And women fall for that, just like men fall for pretty, feminine, wily women. That's survival of the fittest and biology.
[–]casra8880 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh yes. Many do! The same ones who are horrified by violence towards women but who think violence towards men is fucking hilarious! Men get awarded child custody less then 10 percent of the time and women are much more likely to be deadbeats when it comes to support. But all we heaar about is the men. More men have been hurt by female players who never loved the guy . They only loved his resources and the courts who handed them to her. No sympathy whatsoever. Show me a feminist who is fighting against this. Show me a feminist who is fighting for women to be forced to sign up for the draft, for equality in divorce and child custody, for men's suicide rates, men's higher death on the job rates, men's hihr rates of homeless, men's lower rates of college. Show me how feminism is about equality, like they claim. It's not and never has been. Who's fault is that? Women.
[–]Hermit860 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't know what you expect but your dipping your toes in shark infested waters. There's a lot of bitterness here. Marginalized men come here to vent.
[–]JakBlack12340 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Keep shoveling that bullshit. It's marginalized guys and not simply average guys who have figured out what a raw deal men get in marriage and society. We'll see how that works for you in 10, 20 years.
[–]MisterEdGein2 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow, crazy fucking post history.... hamstering is strong in this one.
[–]Llodarr -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you hadn't said taken the time to say "Goodbye", would anyone have noticed you left? Or that you were even there in the first place?
[–]Heyyouwhatsup35[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just wanted to understand. Another woman posted a question asking for some insight and she received decent responses. I am a genuinely decent person who did want to gain another perspective. Do some women posters deserve conversations while others don't?
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