my mother passed away when I was very young. It ruined my father both financial and emotionally. Looking back now I can see my mother was the catalyst for most good things in his life but made him feel like he was in charge and made the choices. once she was gone he fell into ruin. He is a very good and honest guy and I do love him very much, he has always been good to me.

He was re-married in 2012 to a nice woman (divorced of course) she is not bad or anything (tho a typical female) . I am so utterly disgusted by a few things.

If I am on the phone with him, no matter what, if she calls he hangs up with me to take the call. "I got go bill, bill I gotta go, I gotta go...Sarah is calling me" . there is like a panic to take her call.

it's fucking laughable. good guy and all but what a pussy whipped idiot he is sometimes.

use to love to sail. spends all his free time taking her to visit her parents and family and doing gay sunday brunch shit.

male/female relationships are so fucking boring it disgusts me.