19 yo student. logistics/nightlife problems

JamesSkepp · 2016-03-07T08:39:44+00:00

There was a thread here a few days ago about a guy having problems from doing shotgun approaches at his campus.

One of the replies said that RSD Todd had to change schools because of shotgun approach.

Form my perspective - I would chose the option with harder sets. You learn more, you learn faster.

Do I suck it up and get my own place?

Long term option. No amount of game will trump logistics in your case - having a place where she can feel not judged by her peers and in most cases that's not her place but yours.

Onemanwolfpack23 · 2016-03-07T19:13:41+00:00

I've been where you are. Like to a tee. Your priorities are in the wrong place.

If you don't already, get a job
Move out with roommates or find your own place if cost of living affords you this luxury
Make sure your car is in working order
Lift
Make friends, be social

Women will follow. You going out to random places with no friends to "practice game" is such an immense waste of you effort and time.

Heres why you should listen to me:

Because when you do actually get within striking range of a HB7+, and your whole thing falls apart because you have nothing to offer other than your dick, you will feel terrible.

You are trying to get the cherry on top but you need to build the foundation first.

j4c0p · 2016-03-07T12:51:58+00:00

You must choose before . Don't go approaching without clear idea where you can fuck. They will fuck with you in the alley, in bathroom , in small car. You don't have to be sure before you enter club, just be sure before you approach girl.

She wants your decision. When you decide, stick to it. Indecisiveness kills the momentum.

letriggeredface · 2016-03-07T13:04:20+00:00

I'm a college kid from a decent size area, but the girls just aren't that attractive/in abundance. About an hour or twos drive away I can go to places with a little better nightlife. Is it worth it? Should I make that drive and try out that nightlife or just simply stay here and game?

Practice up at home. You said its only a little better and tbh why waste the money? You're better off just grabbing some bud or acid and bringing a girl over to partake with you.

Another note is that I live in a college town, practicing game and gaming every girl here would quickly have an impact on my reputation, any time I go out here I run into lots of people I know, and I'm worried about the repercussions it could have.

Muh PR! Well think of it this way: "chicks are into dudes who fuck many chicks, doing it well means you're still golden." Also you can practice without escalating very far up and not shatter your reputation.

For example, if I'm gaming my social circle, I can't just go downtown and game a million girls there. My social circle game would collapse because I would just become a "player" when all I want to do it practice game.

Or keep friends friends and game strangers. Your friends stay friends and you fuck people you dont know. Rep means shit in a college town, everyone moves out after 4 years.

Logistics. I live at home, about 30 minutes away from the nightlife scene, with my parents.

The pussy dryer is here.

Logistically speaking it is too far to convince a girl to come with, and my parents would freak if I starting bringing girls here.

Yes and very likely

Is the solution just to try to go back to their place?

Yes

How do I handle logistical questions such as: Do I drive or does she drive? What about her friends/roomates? I have a small car so I don't know if I could f-close in my car, and I'm not about to catch a police charge by f-closing in a public-ish area.

Your car you drive. Her car she can choose. Friends and roommates are easily handled, talk with em a bit (at most 2 mins) and go to her room and play music for privacy. From there keep on escalating. You'll be able to control a friend in the same room btw. I once had a girl in college because i told her that her friend who sas staying the night passed out. She watched us but i really dgaf. Bitch only cared after i left.

Do I suck it up and get my own place? Do I take her back to a friends house? I honestly have no idea.

Save up for a place instead. You'll want it more when you can get your own job than now.

Moldy_Gecko · 2016-03-07T16:10:50+00:00

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Title	19 yo student. logistics/nightlife problems
Author	tazih
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	March 7, 2016 8:20 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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