Long time reader, first time poster so bear with me.

Summary: Husband finds out his wife has cheated on him three times to his knowledge and has no idea what to think. What does this blue pill man do? You already know the answer to that.

Original Thread: http://archive.is/5Rgzu

His Update: http://archive.is/TU06M

Body:

So as the story goes, this man finds that his "awesome" marriage is in shambles and his "perfect" wife isn't who he thought she was. He is cognizant enough to see that she is using her phone a little too much around him texting someone at ungodly hours. He gets suspicious and asks to see what she's doing.

After a drawn out argument between them about seeing her phone, he gets his chance. He makes the first mistake of losing his cool here and not keeping the situation under control although i doubt that was ever the case in his entire marriage. After seeing the texts from multiple men she met on gaming websites he breaks down. His wife has no respect for him and it seems he has none for himself.

She immediately starts hamstering and justifying her ways using some pretty creative tactics which I have to give her credit for. She says that there is something "missing" from the marriage and it became routine as she is a stay-at-home mom. She gives other b.s. excuses as to why she did what she did and even gives him an article that justifies why people cheat. By now you know she hasn't taken any responsibility and this guy is wallowing in self pity. He has a really bad case of oneitis and is a huge beta provider which she even admits is why she never told him about the cheating. Why would she? She has everything she wants. Oh and here's the real kicker, she wanted him to meet one of the guys she wanted to fuck, effectively creating the most unassuming cuckolded husband in the universe (read through the comments, you'll find it).

To be honest I really have to give the people responding to this post a pat on the back. Even these guys knew how much of a dumb ass this guy was being and how disrespectful his wife was. Too bad he "loves" her and cant see not spending the rest of his life with her.

His update is just the icing on the cake too. He takes her back and says she admits to everything and accepts that it was all her fault. Whether or not he didn't fuck her well enough we'll probably never know but he definitely has a lot of work to do now. He thinks things will eventually go back to normal now, after having access to every electronic device she uses. I wanted to introduce him to TRP so badly, but we all know you can lead a horse to water, but you cant make it drink. This guy needs to experience this situation again to finally open his eyes. Most guys would probably come to their senses by now but not this guy. This guy is going to come back again asking for help and I'm just gonna laugh my ass off.

Lessons Learned:

  • AWALT
  • Never get married
  • Don't be this guy
  • Never get into a relationship you can't leave in the blink of an eye
  • Literally every other facet of TRP can be applied and taken from this situation