It's crazy how ppl value "relationships" so much

MisterEdGein2 · 2018-04-05T00:26:17+00:00

If you really don't care then why the fuck do you have a Tinder account?

CursingWhileNursing · 2018-04-05T00:45:24+00:00

It's a quite fucked up game with the rules changing the very moment you think you finally get it.

Being an Aspergers and generally what people call a "nice guy", I was the perfect victim, i.e. blue pill beta orbiter. And not a single fuck was ever given by my female friends, co-workers or even family members when I felt lonely and suffered like a dog.

Then, eventually I reached a point of clarity, I finally realised that I feel better when I am not with a woman or, more likely, not chasing one. And all of a sudden I am interesting for women. Now everyone thinks that I need help, that being alone is no way of life for a man and all of them have that nice co-worker or friend who would be perfect for me...

And I tell them what I told one of my female co-workers, asking me who would care for me if I stay alone.

Well, I can take care of myself. I can clean my place, I can wash; iron and sew my clothes, I can cook better than a lot of women I know. So why the hell would I need a woman?

Oh, yes, that sex thing, sure. Well, here is one thing years of involuntary celibacy will teach you. Sex is overrated. You will not die if you don't have sex. And now I could have lots of sex and I have realised that I don't want it anymore.

There is only one thing I wish I could tell all of them right into their faces. I won't, because we all know how this would end for me, but still... See, I always wanted a family. And I honestly think that the wall is not so bad if you face it with some significant other. This might sound strange, but I always thought that "getting old together" is not without poetry. You know, all that Yeats stuff "...but one man loved the pilgrim soul in you. And loved the sorrow in your changing face."

But this does actually mean exactly that. Getting older together. Not "you ride the cock carrousel and when you hit the wall and Chad moved on to greener (and younger) pastures you will gracefully allow me to care for you".

All that "you need a relationship" nonsense is just coming from women that have realised that they need you much, much more than you need them. It's a desperate attempt to shame and blame you into submission, nothing more.

raisins3142 · 2018-04-05T00:27:09+00:00

When you tell them that you don't care and aren't lonely, they don't believe you. Especially women don't believe you. This is partly because they are miserable alone and also they think their pussy is gold and all men lust for it uncontrollably. You're probably younger than me. Wait until you are my age (41 y/o) and decent looking and relatively successful. People will think you are either secretly gay or having something sinister about you. The only people that will trust you will be family and long time, close friends.

If I were ugly, poor, and stupid, then people would pity me. Instead, they imagine all sorts of shit. I know they do because I've had people tell me "I thought you were gay" so many times in my life I've lost count.

And I'm not a bit feminine, and in fact hit many masculine stereotypes (hunt, do outdoorsy shit, deep voice, etc). It's because I could get girls but I don't have one or seem to care.

DangZagnut · 2018-04-05T00:36:30+00:00

They're just jealous.

elementalwalruss · 2018-04-05T11:16:52+00:00

When someone asks why you don't have a girlfriend, just say 2D>3D

2018-04-05T06:55:41+00:00

of course the entirety of why we live is relationships. lets be honest the only reason humans have been given the privilege to evolve and develop such large mammal brains is that we have societies the provide protection and easy food. sex is the second strongest bodily drive besides eating. you're stupid if you don't value the social aspect of humanity. unfortunately its also our downfall. every nice and cordial beautiful thing brought on by language and communication has been deteriorated in the last 25+ years by feminism. I mean think of how much women play the social game now. having men's jobs and careers ruined just by hear and public/social perception. its' why women who are happy with a Chad will still usually keep him off her social media or talk about him. women HATE to talk about their social lives because they like their entire lives to be secret so they can play the social manipulative game as best as possible. Since, let's be honest, the best position in war is for your enemy not to know shit about you and women do that with men and other competing women. truth has no meaning anymore and the entire advantage of talking and fucking and being social creatures that live in communities has been ruined by fat land whales and post modern greed. mostly stemming from women's sexuality and blue-pills reaction to it.

RealBiggly · 2018-04-05T08:33:34+00:00

"Even if hot women text me on Tinder, i don't really get motivated." Fuck are you doing on Tinder?

Saturn9999 · 2018-04-05T08:07:57+00:00

And what of your life problems gf is going to solve ?

Devil_Nights · 2018-04-05T11:47:43+00:00

I often get comments on my stream "why dont you have a girlfriend?" and i always say something like "didnt find the right one" or anything to evade it.

"Just lucky, I guess!"

GranUnic0rn · 2018-04-05T11:55:46+00:00

Dude. Most people don't know what a relationship is.

AntiAbleism · 2018-04-05T12:32:06+00:00

Relationships are stressful, are a waste of time and not worth it.

Title	It's crazy how ppl value "relationships" so much
Author	MK_D
Upvotes	67
Comments	18
Date	April 4, 2018 11:31 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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