Describe the treatment of your father by your mom/his wife

Sol_Install · 2018-03-30T13:24:49+00:00

Temper tantrums. Insults. Never ending complaining. Judging and criticizing others but cannot tolerate it herself. The typical female behavior of never saying shit about anything you do right but always complaining about what you do wrong. I'm talking she comes from work in the morning. Bitching and complaining. Goes to sleep, wake up, bitching and complaining. One time, she literally came out of her room, shit on her brother in the UK, then her coworkers, then my father, and then me. After that stomps off to her room and slams the door shut. All in about 10 minutes. She threw a huge fit once because I set the clock on the stove and microwave. This would happen all the time. Just bitching and bitching about every little thing. She once threw a fit and screamed at me when I was trying to take out the trash. Blaming me for her trash bags running out too fast. But once she went on vacation and my dad and I barely used 2 bags in about 2 weeks. Once, I put out the trash and they never picked it up. She calls me out of my room and throws a fit over it. I tell her what happened. She refuses to believe me. Tells my father that from now on she and he will be taking out the trash. Within the next week, it happens again. She says nothing to me. Never apologizes for anything.

I've gotten jackass, lazy son of a bitch, rat, etc as insults. She had this mentality of how you couldn't guess what to do. So let's say you see dirty dishes in the sink. You go to wash them right? Got yelled at for that. Was doing laundry and one of the containers was empty. Threw it out. Got yelled at for that. Next time it happened, I left the container there. Got yelled at for that. One time, I forgot the trash bin outside. She woke me up at 12 am for that. People thought it was me that was the problem. When her sisters/my aunt's came to visit, one of them said that she will never come back by my mother again. The other was baffled as to how she can act like that and how she never treated my mother this way. Trying to discuss anything with her was a lost cause. She simply wouldn't listen. Combined with her erratic behavior, I simply gave up. I went from greeting her when I would come home to just not saying anything. I would just walk by and that's it. And of course, being a woman, when my aunt asked about why we don't talk, she twisted it around by saying, "He doesn't talk to me."

When I got into MGTOW, I noticed a lot of the similarities that the men with girlfriends/wives were complaining about. I thought, "That's my mother." Here, I'll point it out for you. Engaging in behavior people find deplorable in men. Such as, bitching, complaining, temper tantrums, emotional outbursts, refusal to take accountability for anything in a relationship, two faced behavior(being civil when around others but backstabbing when they're not around), impossible to keep from complaining, the classic double standard of being expected to "respect" women while exhibiting the same behavior that she hates, the only real interest in my education being about whether or not she'll be taken care of.

She literally bitched so much, it made me depressed. I would starve rather than eat around her. I hated being at home. The thing about women bitching so fucking much made me realize something. With all this "toxic masculinity", men are pigs, men are rapists, the endless "bitter virgins", articles on how great and perfect women are and how men are immature, stupid, and lazy, made me realize something.

Women do have a deep hatred for men. They honestly only see the bad in all of us. Yet we are expected to kiss their ass nonstop. Only speak positively of them. This is how I realized that "Feminism" is female nature. Feminism takes what it already there(the hatred of men, the expectation of special treatment by men while shitting on men nonstop, the only interest being your financial gain for their benefit) and it amplifies it. This is why I decided to live alone. Why bother? If all you're going to be told is all your flaws because you're not perfect, clearly the solution is to remove men from the environment. Now that I live alone, no woman with all her perfect mature self will be burdened by me being an inferior, immature, useless man.

M26PershingTank · 2018-03-30T12:01:32+00:00

Arguing all the fucking time. Cheating on each other. Dad being broke. Mom leaves dad, she struggles to even keep a job. Dad becomes a bachelor. I move in with good ol pops and become a mgtow monk and enjoy life. I let mom hold my bmw, she somehow keeps draining the battery and is scared to charge it. So I’m letting it sit until she gets her own car. She makes more money than I do, gets child support from my brothers dad and still can’t do shit right. Even got her car repossessed, twice! Love the lady, but her priorities are never straight, just like most wymyn. Off topic I know...

TinaIsWaifu · 2018-03-31T16:56:05+00:00

I think my father taught me really well. If my mother ever gets out of line he just yells at her. He's one of those guys who has a deep commanding voice and when he yells it's like a lion's roar and it instantly silences her. I'm asian for reference.

Itiswrittenkjv1611 · 2018-03-30T11:47:26+00:00

Yelling. Screaming. Throwing things. Slamming doors. Cheating. Cops being called.

JakBlack1234 · 2018-03-30T11:49:56+00:00

Like shit.

nice04021980 · 2018-03-30T14:14:37+00:00

Cheated on him and with disdain after the divorce.

Xein · 2018-03-30T15:57:20+00:00

I think she married him just because she wanted to have kids. It was kinda odd though because he wasn't an alpha nor was he a great provider. It was apparent that she never loved him and lost interest in the marriage after my younger brother was born. She waited until she got a professional job and then hit the divorce button.

They didn't talk a lot. Both of my parents are difficult to get along with... when they did interact it would be my dad's anger and stubbornness vs. my mom's condescending "I'm always right" kind of attitude.

imthewiseguy · 2018-03-31T05:57:11+00:00

While he was a major piece of shit, she treated him like mega crap. He always just stayed in the garage to avoid her. One day she was yelling at him for so long he ruptured a blood vessel in his head and had to go to the hospital.

Title	Describe the treatment of your father by your mom/his wife
Author	onbakeplatinum
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Date	March 30, 2018 11:38 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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