I was swimming in my head today and I had a realization. Have you noticed how society looks at a man's pursuit of sexual satisfaction from his partner as somewhat base? As if the man is taking advantage of a woman or seeing her as only an object even if he does it in the context of a monogamous relationship? Now try and follow this logic if you can. Would someone be seen as unfaithful in a relationship if they were to get resources from someone outside of the relationship? Well of course not why would they? But would they be considered unfaithful if they found sex outside of a relationship? Do you see what I'm trying to get at here? The thing of real value in a relationship, the thing everyone can agree on is the most important is the thing men are always wanting to give and receive! Men truly are the only ones who value love. Most women I would say even HATE love! That's why they shame men for wanting it so much!