I was sometimes in the past looking up to my friend as being successful because he usually had hot girlfriends. The last one he entered 4 years ago into a longterm relationship and I didn't understand why he transformed himself so much.

From the happy guy, full of life, that I used to know, his hair turned more than half grey white, he was very retreated, sad and often bitter. He started to very rarely go out, he gave up his sports passions.

He was not earning money anymore, his clothes were looking older and more destroyed as time went by.

I didn't understand why he was looking in horror to the fact that he can't escape his hot girlfriend, who moved with him.

Only yesterday he told me the full story, after he moved out, she destroyed his stuff and made a false accusation against him, and basically I understood.

This girl was batshit crazy, like most of hot girls are.

The only quality she had was that 5% of time, she was sweet and loving, and very hot in bed, doing everything.

But 95% she was... Well here are few things that struck me the most:

  • She was often insulting him and hitting him
  • She followed him for days, screaming at him, and he said people were laughing or taking her side, thinking that he abused her or something. The stalking him was her default reaction when he broke up with her,she refused to accept the breakup.
  • she broke into pieces his work papers
  • she told him "I want you to die faster,so I can have kids with hot guy full of tattooes at my job"
  • While they were having sex, she often was saying at minutes difference that she loves him, and then that her biggest love is a guy she saw in the gym
  • She could not fall asleep until 6 am every night, and her sleep program was 6 am - 14 pm everyday
  • She insulted often his friends
  • She had signs of cutting herself when she was younger
  • The whole night she would usually watch very gory and sick horror movies, saying that otherwise she can't fall asleep
  • She peed on his things in order to destroy them
  • She would leave candles burning whole night in other rooms of his flat, and windows opened, basically with a very high risk of starting a large fire while he was sleeping
  • Although 4 years together, she had no empathy for anything happening to him. She was cruel and heartless
  • She carelessly crashed his laptop
  • She hit him at one point over his face with a bag of knives, he was few cm short of losing one eye

Life with her was a hell, and I'm not sure if this girl had borderline personality disorder, or she just caught my friend in a down moment and planned to destroy his life day by day because she saw him becoming weaker