Is there not a way that we can fight by submitting claims of perjury, as difficult as it may be?

How could one possibly gain any benefit over childcare with a CPO when a divorce has already been agreed upon?

Are there any tactics on getting claims dropped?

Story-time : Avoiding all eye-contact and keeping my car windows and doors closed while dropping off the kids to their mother. She wanted to argue, so she forcefully opens my car door to lean in and scream and berate me. My response was a repeated "please exit my vehicle, you are not permitted to open my door".. etc. eventually raising the volume of my voice as she continued with more effort.

The efforts to escape the scenario within the vehicle were to try closing the door (not with force), hoping she would get the hint, which only increased her desire to jam herself more in my face. With her being halfway in my vehicle, my only escape of the scenario is to leave the seat. I stand up, carefully making sure that I do not touch her in any way, yet she tries standing chest-to-chest with me to continue yelling.

Neighbor comes out, hearing the yelling, but "couldn't hear what we were saying", later testifies that I was violent and appeared menacing and ready-to-strike.

Preponderance of evidence showed that no violence nor threat of violence was made, especially considering there was not a history of violent acts or threats.

Granted, 5 years.

We are permitted to communicate about matters pertaining the children, but the attorney's fail to understand why I refuse to communicate with her when anything I say can be interpreted falsely.

tl;dr - no violence, no threats, granted 5 year CPO on no evidence.