Can someone explain to me why so many men seem to be turned on by the idea of another man banging her wife?

2018-03-27T19:23:11+00:00

I️ think porn is a factor. We have an entire generation of men that have been pleasuring themselves to the sight of other people having sex. That’s what they’re conditioned by. So they want to watch their wife as their own personal porn performer.

lostapwbm · 2018-03-27T18:25:58+00:00

What is the psychology behind this? Why on earth is this a turn-on for apparently a lot of men? Why would it be a good thing to let your wife getting gang-banged by a bunch of foreigners with horse cocks?

Some guys are closet-cases who imagine it's them taking 9 inches of black sausage to the bottom and the woman is just a proxy for their fantasies.

Others use it as validation that their wives are sexually attractive because look at all of these men willing to rail her, therefore, he finds her desirable as well. Essentially, external validation.

And still others treat it as kind of a variation on pimping. That they have a measure of control over women that they can get her to fuck strange men or men lower in SMV and then still play the wife role for them. Again, external validation with control fantasies.

ManIsWalking · 2018-03-27T20:12:03+00:00

Couldn't tell you. I, Sir, am a connoisseur of only the finest porn. Ever see a chick suck off two guys in pterodactyl costumes? Classy stuff.

PatnarDannesman · 2018-03-27T20:46:20+00:00

They’re pathetic cucks.

Phantom_Spark · 2018-03-27T21:06:47+00:00

I can only understand this from the idea that you’re more like swingers and you both sleep around. With some kinda agreement that at the end of the day you come home to each other. But otherwise I concur. Wtf?

But on that note men are too paranoid and possessive. I had a discussing with men in person about this. To the point of... why get bent out of shape. Let the woman act naturally and observe her. If she’s cheating... there’s no need for a discussion. You kick her out or leave. The idea that if your woman steps out of line your best thought is to fight with Chad? Bunch of morons. They looked at me like I’m crazy because I said I have no beef with Chad. The girl is the one who’s wrong. Chad is Chad. If women weren’t such proud THOTs, Chad would go extinct. He only thrives because he’s rewarded.

urban3879 · 2018-03-27T18:07:37+00:00

Cause they're weird in the head . What else can one say ?

xxlastyetixx · 2018-03-27T18:20:05+00:00

I remember another's post talking about why "step-family member" porn was i thing , and one comment that really hit me , comment pretty much rationalize that it was a way to normalize that type of behavior "no big deal, everyone is doing it". I find it very intriguing and believe that to be the cased , as many dont really understand their own sexuality, especially when you re a 12 year old( thats when i saw my first porn). Kids are the most vulnerable, trying to fit into society and getting that society to accept them, first you must be indoctrinated.

Stay free Gents

2018-03-27T18:32:42+00:00

I think it's due to escalation of increasingly more detestable porn. It's kind of the reason why some guys would also want to bring a midget into the bedroom as well.

2018-03-27T18:11:01+00:00

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Darth_Toenail · 2018-03-27T18:14:54+00:00

Her wife?

rehmansaad · 2018-03-27T19:32:18+00:00

It's for women. Maybe it's they who fantasize.

CursingWhileNursing · 2018-03-27T22:56:18+00:00

What makes you think they fantasize about their own wife getting railed by another guy? What if they see themselves as the other guy railing some guy's wife?

CompletelyIncorrect0 · 2018-03-28T00:26:12+00:00

I've been with 3 different couples over the past 4 years. One of them several times, the other two just once.

First off, I just want to say that I prefer being with a single woman than being with a couple.

I have been with couples due to dry spells and since it is easier to deal with. I only text the guy to set stuff up and once I leave, I never have to hear anything else from the woman.

I'd say that half of these couples are driven by a woman who talked the guy into letting other guys fuck her. They don't enjoy it, but are too afraid of losing the wife to say anything.

There are guys who legitimately enjoy seeing their wives fucked and fucking their wives with other guys. I've had this explained to me as "it just makes her seem so slutty". Or "I enjoy how dirty it all is".

So like other posters have said - porn probably plays a huge role in the rise of cucking. That and women wanting to continue to ride the carousel without divorcing their wallets.

scaur · 2018-03-27T18:22:34+00:00

Mental BDSM ?

greenleefs · 2018-03-27T19:17:15+00:00

I don't get it. I also don't believe it.

Mr_M0t0m0 · 2018-03-27T22:00:53+00:00

Because those men are psychologically damaged from being with the manipulative femoid. She has twisted his brain and he then conforms to allowing her to cuckold him. He thinks he is allowing it, when it's actually her mind games which makes him sexually sick enough to want to see a Chad/Tyrone/Cheng/Abdul/Manuel bang his wife.

ArtoriusXv · 2018-03-27T18:47:18+00:00

Foreigners with horse cocks

I lol'd, not gonna lie that image is wrong yet hilarious.

SuddenTrip · 2018-03-27T18:56:16+00:00

I don't fancy that myself but I think it because of they like the idea that their woman is so desirable to other guys but she still chose him of all that guy?

He owns her and she'll always be back and stay with him no matter how many session she has with another man, he is irreplaceable for her. It validates his partner sexual appeal and his sex appeal as the winner of all those men, "you want her so much but you only get her because I made her did it and even after that, she'll always choose me over you",

or they probably like that they can ask her to do anything, she loves him so much to do whatever he said, even by whoring to another man?

GranUnic0rn · 2018-03-27T19:33:16+00:00

I think most people hate themselves subconsciously and this an expression of their hidden self-hate.

OhhiBee · 2018-03-28T00:28:14+00:00

Ahh not me dude.

DigitalScetis · 2018-03-28T02:42:16+00:00

I suspect the appeal of the cuckholding derives from the same subconscious roots as the appeal some wives have when they are beaten by their husbands: it isn't the act itself that gratifies them; they desire what happens afterword.

It has long been theorized that women, for example, who seek out abusive men do it because they find the post-abuse cuddling, sweet words, and sex to be irresistible. In this way, she looks forward to the abuse, because the abuse signals to her that the affection is coming.

I think cucks have the same process going on; you take a man with abandonment issues, say a man who (as a boy) came home from school to an empty house, not knowing when (or if) his mother will ever return.

Now this guy is going to have some serious neuroses once he grows up and finds a wife. His greatest fear is abandonment by his mother figure, the wife, because that's what women do...how can he know--how can he be sure and be reassured--that his wife won't abandon him?

It isn't when she fucks him and him only...to the husband, that's just a sign that he'll come home one day and find her gone...just like what happened when he was a child. Fucking her gives him no relief from his abandonment issues.

What gives him relief from his abandonment issues is when he can witness his wife fucking other guys, and (this is important) have her come back to him after its over. Going back to him afterword is, in his libidinal world, much more sexually gratifying than actual sex with her. In this way, he looks forward to the cuckholding, because the cuckholding signals to him that she's coming home to the husband (and not the cuckholder). It's just the way his libidinal process works.

That's the best psychological rationale for this desire that I can see. It may not make sense to you or anyone here, but you wanted to know why.

SomeGhostingGuy · 2018-03-28T04:57:30+00:00

Looking at most "wives" around here .. I would not want to bang them myself either.

SovereignSoul76 · 2018-03-28T06:55:53+00:00

I think the logic goes something like this:

"I'm the best boyfriend/husband in the world. I provide emotional and spiritual support (the REALLY impirtant stuff) for my partner, but lack the ability to fuck her like an animal. So being the best hubby ever, I allow her to get that part elsewhere. I mean...its just sex."

I think the cuck believes that it makes him a good person for giving his wife what she wants. Hey, happy wife happy life, amiright guys?!

MGTOW_4Life · 2018-03-28T09:31:55+00:00

I think what everyone has already said is true, but I'm pretty confident that the popularity of "cucked" videos is at least partly due to (married) women watching and fantasizing about it.

Title	Can someone explain to me why so many men seem to be turned on by the idea of another man banging her wife?
Author	CursingWhileNursing
Upvotes	22
Comments	36
Date	March 27, 2018 6:04 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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