Hi folks !! New to the mgtow family

Phantom_Spark · 2018-03-24T21:07:58+00:00

Learn from your mistakes. This means sit down and really think about it and what it means to your life. Don’t blame yourself for all of it, nor blame the outside world... its likely both.
MGTOW is a hard pill to swallow... and while you’re hurting I don’t think you’re ready for it. So my advice is to focus solely on yourself. Put yourself as the #1 priority for now as you get your life in order.
As you begin to regain yourself begin reading MGTOW, and start to understand it. It has a long history. I literally just made a post about that today.
People come to MGTOW at different stages in life and it takes time to digest. While removing women from the focus of your life is a major element it is NOT the priority. What is the priority? YOU... the little boy you used to know had dreams and ambitions. The goal is you and your ambitions. To realize the man you wanted to be and make it into reality. A major element in this is your freedom.
Never forget where you came from and what it took to get there. Understand the reality that waits for you if you go back and the cost and benefit of moving forward. A MGTOW who must force himself to live these ideals has failed. It is a life you must embrace with fervor if you want to continue as everything and everyone you know may try to bring you back.
If you make it this far, you are truly living the dream and will have the confidence and experience to guide others and will be a threat to those who represent your past.
Knowing all this... will you still step forward? MGTOW is also about knowledge and choice. There’s no need to lie to you or force you to do anything. You make the decisions and shape your life. Choosing your own path is painful and can be lonely. You’re purging ideas that are at your very core. Know what lies before you and know the challenges. For if you make this journey... take that first step in confidence, and with resolve!

2018-03-24T21:08:36+00:00

a) It passes with time. Each day that you let it control you is another day that you suffer. Each day that you let it roll off is another day that you win. It is hard, especially at first, but just keep getting out of bed and doing your best.

b) Stay busy, stay focused, keep moving forward.

c) Avoid or go easy on quick jolts of happiness: booze, drugs, porn, video games. Anything that allows you to escape reality too much and too often. The only real way out is slogging forward through the muck day after day.

d) It is not your fault. You were fed lies since birth that forced you to learn these lessons the hard way. Now you know and it definitely wont happen again.

Stick with that, and a year from now it will be nothing but a a dull ache.

sadndangry · 2018-03-24T18:26:43+00:00

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Incapaisa · 2018-03-24T19:09:38+00:00

Fiancée? Don’t marry

voltage189 · 2018-03-24T20:36:39+00:00

meditate. also if she was only your fiance, that means you never signed the paper. you can only make the best of the situation you were dealt and yours couldve been a whole lot worse

EuphemisticallyTrue · 2018-03-24T22:05:15+00:00

I made a 5 part series that contains most of the views in MGTOW. You might find part 5 useful.

Part 1 of 5: Summary of MGTOW

Part 2 of 5: Information: Social and legal problems

Part 3 of 5: Human Nature: Evolutionary psychology and it's implications

Part 4 of 5: MGTOW Philosophy

Part 5 of 5: Red Pill Rage and Depression to Self-actualization and Contentment

MovingSkies · 2018-03-25T16:48:48+00:00

Welcome brother, at this point you pretty much only have 2 options..

1) give up and wallow in depression and self pity Or 2) pick up the pieces and accept what happened to you as a learning experience.

I went through the same thing during my divorce and wallowed in depression for years before I finally realized that almost none of what happened was my fault. That’s the first thing you need to understand. We did our best and our best wasn’t good enough nor will it ever be good enough for some people. And that’s ok. All of us here have value and it’s not our fault that some people fail to see that. Time heals all wounds friend, the only thing we can do is take it one day at a time and try to be a better person than them. When they aim low we aim high. Good luck on the path!

EuphemisticallyTrue · 2018-03-29T15:04:38+00:00

I made a 5 part series that contains most of the views in MGTOW.

Part 1 of 5: Summary of MGTOW

Part 2 of 5: Information: Social and legal problems

Part 3 of 5: Human Nature: Evolutionary psychology and it's implications

Part 4 of 5: MGTOW Philosophy

Part 5 of 5: Red Pill Rage and Depression to Self-actualization and Contentment

Title	Hi folks !! New to the mgtow family
Author	sadndangry
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	March 24, 2018 6:24 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/86uwgr/hi_folks_new_to_the_mgtow_family/
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