Ive seen this notion before and i wanted to add some of my own observations that support this.

1: When i was in middle school during winter testing, we would only have to go to school on select days depending on which midterm test you had to take. The school would send out automated messages to everyone's home back then to state what tests were that day. My mother woke me up screaming that i have to go to school, i explain to her that i don't even have have the class that. She says "You're playing the damn foo, get your ass to school" i try to take out my schedule for proof but she gets more angry and makes me walk to school in winter(since i missed the bus already). When i get to school a teacher ask's me "what test am i here for?" i tell him "i don't know" he gives a confused look and asks to see my schedule: Then looks at me " You don't even have a test, you don't have the class for this test. "I know" is all i could muster up in my 12 year old mind. It was extremely embarrassing for me and i realize now that many experiences like this had a bad impact on my social anxiety.

2: Another time in middle school, i was called down to the main office. Once there my mother was waiting and asked if i had my house-keys. I said no i forgot them. She begins berating me on how I'm a man and this was so immature of me, that she will have to pay a lock smith now and she cant trust me.

now even as a beta boy i realized how hypocritical she was since she forgot her keys also.

3:This one i noticed after reading Chinewizu's book "The anatomy of female power". When i would be punished for what ever reason after school my mother would threaten me with a beating but say that she would wait till my father got home.

The reason for holding off on something she could handle herself is, so that my father will be more angry coming from home after a long day of work, gives him a moment to prove himself for his women, and also preserves her image as peaceful while making my dad look like a monster and alienating myself from him.

women are very calculating don't be fooled