MGTOW advice needed!

DangZagnut · 2017-06-26T17:14:06+00:00

You can talk to your roommate and say that she's using up resources, so she needs to start contributing. That can be as simple as cleaning, cooking, housework, or plain cash. Or the roommate can contribute more.

Other than that, I'd ignore her. Go your own way, spend your days doing what you want, and if she interferes with that, then you have to address it.

gods_bones · 2017-06-26T17:31:20+00:00

Are you both splitting bills for the place? If so, then talk to him privately and tell him that you need to come up with a new way to divide the bills because 50/50 is not going to cut it anymore when there are 3 people using up the resources. Tell him you would be fine with it if he wants to increase his payment of the bills to 66% to cover her share if she does not want to pay out of her own pocket. Make sure you tell him this when she is not in the apartment.

If he argues, or if he agrees and then tells her and she argues, tell him that you would be happy to install a meter in your room to measure your own electricity usage, but gas and water will have to be figured out by them because there is no way to account for their use. If you choose to buy a meter for your room, unfortunately you're going to have to limit your usage of common rooms such as kitchen and living room and stay mostly in your bedroom.

If neither of those work, the only other solution would be to stop paying the bills and move out. Make sure you remove your name from the bill address, otherwise it will affect your credit rating.

RedFoxOnFire · 2017-06-26T16:42:10+00:00

If, and I mean "if" you can stomach her, then have her move in so you can split the bills three ways.

If you choose to go this route, be sure to set boundaries.

"This is my bathroom, there are many like it but this one is mine. You will not feminize my bathroom."

DWShimoda · 2017-06-26T20:01:56+00:00

Note that I really consider my room mate as a close friend, and complaining about the situation makes me feel like a whinner.

You're NOT a "whiner"...

Your "buddy" and his girlfriend are literally "fucking you over" both financially (I'd bet your water & energy bills have DOUBLED since she "moved in"); as well as in terms of the living arrangement (space, privacy, etc) that you agreed to.

That said, they will TRY to call you a "whiner" -- she because that's just what bitches do -- he because he's pussy-whipped and will agree with whatever she says (if he doesn't, she'll bite his dick off).

Most likely what you will need to do is move out (ASAP, before shit gets nasty*).

And then, once you have a new place lined up -- and assuming your name is even ON the lease -- notify the landlord (**) that by adding a third person, your roommate has "breached" the lease agreement, forcing you to abandon the premises, and that your roommate is therefore now liable for any/all penalties (if the landlord does NOT desire to "evict" then your roommate {and/or his girlfriend} that means they are taking over FULL responsibility for the remainder of the lease, and he should probably have them sign a new lease).

* And there's probably somewhere between a 75% to a 90% probability of that.

** If you're LUCKY, then you can TIME this to coincide with the normal/natural end/renewal of the lease (i.e. the anniversary of when you first rented the place) -- that way there technically isn't a "breach" of the lease, there is just a "new" lease arrangement that needs to get written up (and you should get your 50% of the security deposit back from the landlord, with your roommate needing to pony up with a NEW 50% due the landlord).

BTW this is why you DON'T "cohabitate" particularly in a RENTAL situation (even with another guy as "roommate"); exception is renting a room(s) from a friend that OWNS a home; that is a significantly different matter (but even then you should make certain there is a nice WRITTEN/SIGNED agreement in place).

2017-06-26T17:45:51+00:00

Get your own place.

logophiliac · 2017-06-26T19:18:08+00:00

Well, I wouldn't room with a cucked simp to begin with. You may as well be living with a woman.

I'd say your MGTOW is seriously compromised.

It's time to get rid of your roomie, or give your notice.

MGTOW advice needed!

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*Ass, cash or grass.... no one rides (lives) for free.**

Title	MGTOW advice needed!
Author	CrazyHume
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Comments	12
Date	June 26, 2017 4:25 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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