Red Pill Sadness

Incapaisa · 2018-03-11T21:17:54+00:00

Your purpose has been stripped from you To serve,support and raise a family and wife The gate on the plantation has been opened and you are liberated.

Now you say now what? Hobbies, friendships are what will take up your time. It’s hard but look at as you do what you want to do.

Or man up and get married knowing the risks and dangers

In the end you have a finite time here in earth Choose your own path and go your own way

AWatchNerds · 2018-03-11T21:16:13+00:00

Life is about creating things to do, so we can constantly busy ourselves from the reality at hand that everything we do is meaningless and if we let ourselves go extinct than the world would be better off without us and no one in the future would have to deal with the sadness that we've created.

Ed_Moy · 2018-03-11T21:53:00+00:00

This is your Plato's Cave, check it out if you have not read it. You've emerged and know what life is like with the wool taken off your eyes.

Now you begin the journey of The Self. There is a saying about those that find true enlightenment at the top of the mountain also find there are few that have made that journey so it is lonely at the top. But you are not alone, we all here are taking or have taken the same steps you are making now.

Find a hobby or new tradeskill that allows you to socialize with that group, so that you are not alone.

BHeletrica · 2018-03-12T04:05:34+00:00

Nobody have the answer you seek but yourself. MGTOW will tell you how the world can deceive you so you can become a wiser man and find your own path in life, but you can only find it alone.

stringedbeams · 2018-03-12T03:15:00+00:00

yeah OP it sounds like you basically need a purpose. Many people find their purpose in having a wife and kids and working; if you're not married you might find purpose in religion like Christianity, in prayer (like monks and priests). Or if ultimately single, just like volunteering and helping people and having a positive impact on the world.

SimplyKaz · 2018-03-12T12:01:04+00:00

yup I can definitely say I'm at this stage now. I have pretty much got everything I need all sorted so it's like 'what now' I'm struggling to find meaning in life and dealing with mortality and existentialism. I'm just searching for my purpose but I will find it.

The reason you're feeling this way could also be a lack of purpose. You lack a life purpose and a reason to get you out of bed in the morning and keep you from it at night. Finding this and having the ability to seize it fully will release you from these feelings.

We may biologically be programmed for love, reproduction and family but we have the wonderful gift of a conscious brain. That means we don't have to do what we're programmed for. These women you see with the family and the kids and the fucking TV dinners have FAILED. They have created nothing meaningful or of substance at all with their life. They are living parasites and consumers. You however haven't fell into such a trap yet. You can still find your calling and make a difference, as can all of us MGTOW brothers.

MGTOW-Philosopher · 2018-03-12T14:06:17+00:00

I talked about your post on my most recent podcast. I suggest you take a listen. Ready yourself for some tough love my friend, because I'm brutally honest, but it's for your own good. Take care.

https://soundcloud.com/user-718412212/mgtow-philosopher-podcast-29-mgtow-monday

JosephBancor · 2018-03-13T14:39:21+00:00

In the book of ecclesiasties the message was not everything is meaningless.

It was that because everything is vanity the only non vain thing is to worship God. Get close to God pray etc., Everything except things of God are vain is the point of the author of the book.

EuphemisticallyTrue · 2018-03-20T04:22:28+00:00

I made a 5 part series that contains most of the views in MGTOW. You might find part 5 useful.

Part 1 of 5: Summary of MGTOW

Part 2 of 5: Information: Social and legal problems

Part 3 of 5: Human Nature: Evolutionary psychology and it's implications

Part 4 of 5: MGTOW Philosophy

Part 5 of 5: Red Pill Rage and Depression to Self-actualization and Contentment

Kornstar04 · 2018-03-11T22:10:18+00:00

Check out the latest huMAN youtube video, he addressed this.

IcebergHermit · 2018-03-12T03:34:53+00:00

Thanks, all of that makes sense. One of the hardest things is overcoming the co-dependency I recently discovered in myself and find that it’s one of the hardest struggles to overcome. If I can get past that and the inner turmoil of “needing” love and affection and approval from a woman (this has dogged me most of my life) I will be able to sort this out easier.

This whole MGTOW thing is a process, a loooong process. I don’t even like the label too much because it sounds as if once a man claims to be MGTOW it means the path is set, the anxiety gone, the loneliness eliminated, and the fun doesn’t stop.

uglymtherfker · 2018-03-12T11:14:53+00:00

Being born on a plantation it’s hard to stay away. But think of all the other poor kids born on a plantation and show them how it’s done.

hagbergp · 2018-03-12T14:27:50+00:00

SNAP OUT OF IT!!!

starkfuture · 2018-03-12T15:42:18+00:00

Stages of grief(for the life that, you now know, will never be). It's all good. Find solidarity in your principles and prosper.

IcebergHermit · 2018-03-12T22:31:08+00:00

Thanks for the feedback, it makes sense. Maybe we confuse boredom with loneliness often? It could be a big factor in this.

IcebergHermit · 2018-03-12T23:08:10+00:00

You made a lot of sense about the beta simp - my ex married a guy who cleans her house and cooks her dinner and puts up the Christmas lights and all kinds of other shit. Your right about this!!!

IcebergHermit · 2018-03-12T23:27:46+00:00

Another thing - this is just a realization that might help others. I’ve come to realize I have some bad abandonment issues, it started when my mom died of cancer when I was 12 then my dad died of his drinking when I was 17. My whole adult life I was looking for a woman to fill that “void” inside. And I realize now that’s completely unrealistic.

Male Mother Need is a bitch - Sandman did a video I just watched on this topic. Wow. This shit can mess you up if your not careful, you will always put women on a pedestal and long for their approval and emotional assurance.

A lot of stuff to consider but I think I’m beginning to realize what my main issue is: looking for a woman to replace my mom who died when I was young. It sucks but at least now I understand better than I did before.

Title	Red Pill Sadness
Author	IcebergHermit
Upvotes	19
Comments	20
Date	March 11, 2018 9:09 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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