How to keep the ego intact

Foodboi · 2016-05-12T21:51:17+00:00

you have to realize that you meant nothing to her. you were but a fling, and that's all you'll ever be. your ego isn't the actual problem here, it's your perspective. count this as a victory, you got some good pussy and it didn't even bite you in the ass.

chief66red · 2016-05-13T02:24:27+00:00

Read the sixteen laws of poon and implement them

XVI. Never be afraid to lose her

You must not fear. Fear is the love-killer. Fear is the ego-triumph that brings abject loneliness. You will face your fear. You will permit it to pass over and through you. And when your ego-fear is gone you will turn and face your lover, and only your heart will remain. You will walk away from her when she has violated your integrity, and you will let her walk when her heart is closed to you. She who can destroy you, controls you. Don’t give her that power over yourself. Love yourself before you love her.

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/

MattyAnon · 2016-05-12T20:22:43+00:00

but I don't think I knew when to tone it down. I think this made her feel a bit uncomfortable (I got this from her)

The longer things go on, the more "beta dating" tendencies you have to add in order to keep her. Not reactive or dependent, but definitely a bit "nicer". A bit more reasonable. But with your options open and enough alpha to spice things up.

My armor to rejection like this is not strong yet

Get more options.

balalasaurus · 2016-05-13T00:52:39+00:00

Let go of your ego. It's far better to appear to have one than to actually have one. You not only get a better sense of yourself, but others as well,

Alanranks7 · 2016-05-13T02:03:24+00:00

Rejection will occasionally happen you just have to move on. Not to mention given the short time you were together she should have been a plate to you and nothing more. As far as your BP coming through you should try and get her to hang out with you in person as much as you can if its easier but if not you need to work on your sms game.

And DONT get oneitis for a woman early on in a relationship, its risky business and in most cases not worth it. Improve yourself and keep pushing foreward man.

misterbadattitude · 2016-05-13T10:29:18+00:00

The ego is that voice in your head that nobody else hears, feels or sees. Now ask yourself that question who is that voice.. do you have control over it or does it control you. You can silent the voice on your head and steer your thoughts. It's all a matter of perspective. You need to focus on what you can control and that is usually not external. Sometimes you need to shout to that little whining voice in your head SHUT UP! You're the prize my friend remember that bitches come and go.

Title	How to keep the ego intact
Author	Indlons
Upvotes	12
Comments	8
Date	May 12, 2016 8:09 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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