Females are constantly scanning you for flaws and problems. And any one can be a dealbreaker. No matter how much they like you as a "friend" or in a relationship sense, it's one wrong move and then it's done for you. It's like interacting with a boss or supervisor, they're constantly evaluating you.

But you're expected to appreciate and be thankful for their mere presence, matter how fucked up they are. Why do you have to put in all of the effort? Why is everything you're doing judged?

You can live like the so-called "Red Pill" guys in mental slavery and evaluate every single social interaction you have and think about what you do right or wrong. Or you can go your own way and have your own personality/lifestyle and live the way you want to.