in my early 20's i began noticing a trend. girls would admit they had a boyfriend, but then didn't want to show him, or they'd tell you who he was, but then didn't want you telling so and so that you had a bf or that their bf was so and so.

it became clear to me how much women control information. this always rubbed me the wrong way. I get it when people spread rumors and false information, but say i am dating girl Y and girl Y is for sure my girlfriend, we fuck, we hang out, we have romantic dinners. what do I care who knows, if i'm going to date her, people will know.

it became clear to me how much women very meticulously like some high level fucking CIA operative, curtail the spread of their image and knowledge about them, they are HYPER aware of peoples perceptions of them and exploit that.

but why, to hide their cheating behavior? or the way they play guys for beta and then dump them, the old beta pump and dump (yes girls can do it too).....i know one thing women love to show pictures of everything fucking good thing in their life. a good meal, a good sunset, a good new outfit, a good hair day.

but i've noticed girls RARELY brag about their guy. i know many girls that will have a guy and then never show his face on social media, not take him out or talk about him. its clear he's the "guy of the moment" and she has to keep herself open and free feeling in her public image.

just something i've noticed. yes you get the occasional oh i love my beta man for bringing me 5 dozen roses, or look at my CHAD he's so fucking hot, but overall girls aren't dating the CHAD and are ashamed of their beta. they don't care about you. they don't share you or are proud of you. if a gender whose entire existence is about bragging and social image boosting, they should be proud to have a good relationship. but they never are. they are not proud of you, they are filling the gap until CHAD gets off work. I seriously can't remember a girl either showing her man alot in her social life, or talking about him in social situations just in positive and loving ways. i swear 99% of women these days tell me they fucking hate their BF. to which i reply why date him. the answer is always "oh he's good to me".