I am very close to the head coach of my tennis team, so I want to remain civil in all of this but I need advice.

I have been with the SAME GIRL for almost a year and when I graduate from college I plan on proposing to her. I want to keep this conflict free but I'm getting frustrated!

I am the assistant captain on my college tennis team and I worked really hard to get here. Along the way I met a girl who is the love of my life. She was my friend freshman year and was close to dropping out. Her financial situation sucks because her dad is in prison so I got my family to help her out and pay tuition. We have since been "more than friends" and she doesn't want labels but I consider her my girlfriend and soul mate. She helped me gain the courage to join the tennis team and since then I have risen in the ranks and became the assistant captain!

I caught my girlfriend texting my coach last year and I didn't think much of it. But then they started going out for drinks and I got suspicious.... so I went to his house while she met with her tutor and caught them together in his guest room.

Anyways I need advice. She's been seeing us both for almost 6 months and I think she's starting to drift away from me. My coach keeps telling me that it's just casual and I shouldn't worry. I graduate in a few months and I want to ask her to marry me.

Do you guys have any advice for me? I'm afraid she will reject my proposal and I've been trying to apply more MGTOW.