become the man people are surprised to learn is going his own way. "him? why does he not date?" this is best way to represent the movement. you are not dating by choice.

i have reached recently a major benchmark for my weightlifting. i am in the 1000 pound club of the "big three" (squat, deadlift, overhead press) and, despite my poor self image, i can attest to the changes in my appearance and the glances i receive as well.

people learning i have gone my own way often find a surprise. it is because, like you, i have set aside all other priorities to become the man i know i deserve to be.

think of reasons why you have gone your own way. consider if these are the reasons that make you voluntarily going your own way.

are you seeking to become a man, by a standard outside of the charlatans and manipulators? are you seeking to no longer engage in the risks of dating in today's era? are you a victim of such risks already?

going your own way out of inadequacy, hatred, or loneliness is mistaken. this would be out of necessity. it is not going your own way, it is going the only way. the goal is to achieve, not to grieve.

thank you for helping me, brother. become the man you know you want to be.