Maybe the lack of role model is where all the things go wrong.

The reason why many women lack reason and logic is because they dont know better . Since beta male providers are the ones that usually are the backbone of society then daughters are thought by mothers and not fathers. "Go ask mother' is first phrase that comes in my mind.

Probably this could be solved for women to marry younger but husband should be 10 years older which i would call a golden distance . When a man in his near 30's has gathered enough experience for woman to learn .

I don't know this role model theory is something that popped in my mind. Since man does not age that badly if doing some exercise and not indulging in many addictive substances they theoretically could reach "finish" line in same level.