As they say, living well is the best revenge

If you have hate towards someone because they disrespected you, then that you are acknowledging that that person has power to make your life miserable. The best revenge is to acknowledge how haters actually made your life better.

For example, being rejected and disrespected by society led me to question societal beliefs and become a nonconformist with more freedoms and self-reliance. It led me to discover red pill and MGTOW. I saved myself from marrying a bitch who would likely just divorce me later on, paying alimony, etc

As another example, I was recently terminated at a gynocentric company because I didn't fit in. This was a blessing, because I returned home, had to be more risk-taking to meet new people, made a great new friend who convinced me to use hookers to satisfy my needs. I freed myself from an enormous amount of sexual frustration. I also saved time and money every day by not having to follow fashion trends, buy expensive clothing, cold approaching women to game, writing message on okcupid, taking dance/yoga classes just to meet women, etc

Even my own family disrespected me and treated me like a scapegoat. Does that mean I hate them and am bitter at them? NO. the solution is simple. I just avoid them now and plan to expat. I used that energy of feeling disrespected to become curious about life abroad, so I traveled to nearly 10 countries alone. I made some great friends in my time abroad. I believe I got the much better life while my asshole family members will just suffer with the rat race and trying to meet society's nonsensical expectations

Each time you hit a setback, deal with an asshole, etc, learn to see the hidden gift in it. It helped you become stronger, gain wisdom, and you live a better life because of it