They try to control your life, the put you down, the give you hell when you have no choice to move back with them. Even if you fix things around the house, shovel snow, mow the lawn during summer, fix the clothesline , fix the cable and the computer. Cook your own meals etc.

They push you threw hell, knowing that you work night time, making noise during the day, waking you up when you get a phone call during the day, your training and they bug you etc....

Now that the table have turned and everyone is older my grand mother 95 and my mother 73, they whine because i don't see them often.

My mother asked me when my grand mother dies to move in with her, at the house, i would be saving so much money, of the top i would be making 50k if i sold my condo, and would help pay things around the house, money wise would be a great choice.....

Then i started thinking about my quality of life, since my mother is so negative, she is schedule for total knee replacement surgery in April, i am working she ask me to take time off from my job to go with her, and i said no.

I told her that its best for the both of us if she sold the house and got a small condo, and be on her own. My grand mother is 95 and she is driving her crazy but my mother too stupid to put her in a special needs for old people she is keeping her at the house.

Respect goes both ways, if she would have been there for me when i needed her and not discouraged me i would have been there for her now why should i sell my condo, i got a great deal i live near every service, a bit far from my job but i work 3 times per week so.... i live in the third floor of a condo building, got a great deal, why should i sell this and move back with my mother to get a small room, and be depressed and miserable.....

Fuck that .......