Thanks to you brothers we have opened pandora's box. As someone who lives outside the US I think the same as you. Even if the marriages in my country would all be beautiful rainbows I still wouldn't commit, because of what happened to you guys and because of female nature. Odds are just stacked against you while you have the option to be free. Let me say that again; you have the option to be free. Yet some people fail to understand it. But in order to know if you can be free, you have to know the options you have.

Other people will say when talking about divorce rates: "yeah that's just US or japan but it won't happen here." But they fail to realize that it can happen to you. Why would you disregard what happens somewhere else? The problem is that it even is there in the first place. That it's possible for a woman to fuck a man over with the power of the government. Who wants to give a gun to someone who potentially can shoot you anytime they want with a lot of benefits?

Sometimes feelings override your logical thinking. You have to first realize where the feelings are coming from before you can fight it. Sometimes I don't even know if it's because people are stupid for not realizing what's going on in this world or they just deny what's going on and are going by life with the belief of "It definitely won't happen to me" or "I'm not that stupid, I can choose the right partner". Then when life hits them hard even though the warnings have been given they will come to the truth or as a 'donkey' hit the same stone twice or thrice before finally realizing and accepting the truth or they will commit suicide. Some people keep trying and will live a life of misery.

Then choose freedom instead of placing your life in a gamble to give up your freedom for a chance to get your life towards suicide or have a spouse for an x amount of time without knowing when the time ticking bomb -divorce- will blow up anytime. People can't be saved unless they want to be saved themselves.

If someone comes from a perspective I want the best life possible and disregards the cost of the sacrifices for a potentially good life he is stupid as fuck. Intelligence requires the ability to look in the future and see the potential outcomes. After that, you make your decision where you want to go. A good ship needs a good captain and a destination where it wants to go. If you don't have that, the ship will stay at the harbour and won't the ship won't move.

As a final note: It's easier to believe a comfortable lie than a dark truth. Know what works in your best interest.

tl;dr Pandora's box is open. Don't disregard what happens somewhere else -getting fucked by laws in a gynocentric society- and don't have a mentality that it won't happen to you or you think you are smart(rant when talking to blue pills / strengthening your resolve). It requires brains to know your potential future outcomes -not just one- of your current decisions. Choose to be free if you have the choice.