I've been wanting to do this post for a long time, so here it is.

I recall around the age of about 10, I had some attraction to females. Nothing major, but by the time I was 13, I was a regular horny teenager who didn't know shit about sex. Back then there was no internet, porn wasn't rampant. You saw girls in school, you might like the look of their legs, or their overall appeal. You wanted desperately to fuck them. Jerking off to a magazine or poster you got from your friends. Attending school discos in the hope of fucking. Back then you measured progress in bases. First base, second base, etc.

It's fucking clear in hindsight, but it was extremely fucking clear back then that women (girls) were the gatekeepers of sex. Every single one of my guy friends was like me, horny non stop, and would never say no to sex. The problem is NONE of us were getting sex. What was then known as French kissing was as far as it went. Sure tons of rumors and bullshit, but that's all it was.

High school was a bit different but not much. Same perhaps even stronger sexual desire and almost zero fucking interest from girls. If you believed all the talk, it would seem every kid was fucking every week, except for you. Thinking about it now, it's fairly clear fucking, actual fucking was a very rare thing, and I'm sure 80-90% of kids finished high school as virgins. These days, things have changed.

So let's just stop here and review. That's roughly 7 years as a guy already I had been a) ready b) wanting to fuck. Your body is producing semen, so for all the subjective laws we have around this stuff and age of consent, etc. For me ready to fuck was 13. I stood by this then, and I stand by this now.

So any sane person would already conclude that females simply do not to fuck as much as men. Why were all the guy kids horny, blue balled, talking about sex like a fantasy and yet NEVER getting action.

I started my 20's off on that note. Still a virgin. Then I met this guy who was well travelled, and we got on the subject. He firmly believed women not only wanted sex as much as men, but actually more. Only they were very good at hiding it, he then went on to discuss primitive PUA techniques to unlock this sex. For a while I believed him but it didn't sit right.

In the last 20 years I've been alive, I've heard this same shit being regurgitated by guys I've known over the years. Only now I am convinced it is false.

So now I'll present my evidence.

Whole thing can start with the bullshit of men being the hunters. If women wanted sex equally, then why would there be a need for one gender to be the hunter? Surely you would see more women approaching men for sex.

On that note, I've only ever been propositioned for sex 3 times in my entire life by females. Were it has been a clear cut case of "I want to fuck you". In the overwhelming other cases, I've instigated it or I would not have gotten fucked at all.

The simple social experiment of sending a female 6 into a bar and giving her 20 minutes to come out with a guy to fuck. Most would be able to pull this off in under 5 minutes. The same task given to a man, he would NEVER be able to pull off.

Now I will discuss the female anatomy. Firstly sex is broken. It took me a long time to realise this because back in my days there was shrouds of mystery over this shit. But it's more than clear today, virtually hardly any women out there can orgasm from pure vaginal sex.

Go ahead and google it "What does vaginal intercourse feel like for a woman" -> The answers are frankly disappointing but eye opening.

Next let's talk about that screaming and moaning. This is another one of those things you can't unlearn. It's not that they're really screaming or moaning because "It's so uncontrollably good". This is biological factor to get their mates to cum quicker or to turn on their mates, or to give their mates more pleasure or seem more desirable. THAT'S IT. Notice how each culture has their own scream or moan. Compare Asian porn to European. Guys don't typically scream or moan during sex.

Next orgasm faking. Ever heard of guys faking an orgasm? No - because it's not a thing. A guy fucks because he wants to. So why is it that women need to fake orgasms? Could it be because they simply do not want to fuck? Why the fuck fake an orgasm.

Now let's talk about the one redeeming factor, The clitoris. It's true that with enough work you can give a woman a damn good orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation. But if you're a normal guy, there is no way you can fuck her long enough and in certain positions only to also be stimulating the clitoris. You would need to last more than 10 minutes of constant directed fucking. Most guys cannot do this, they simply cum too quickly. So orgasms then, or at least the idea of both parties fucking to orgasm simultaneously is not naturally possible.

Now let's talk directly about 10 years of marriage. I guess I was one of the lucky ones. I didn't go weeks or months without fucking ever. Some guys get sex cutoff. How many guys do you know who cutoff sex?

What I can say is without fail, every time we fucked I would orgasm. And it has been this way in general. Every single time I have fucked I have orgasmed. My ex wife on the other hand would often say "I don't need to orgasm today".

Because "sex is broken" we had this routine worked out over time. It was always her turn to cum first because if I came first I would not feel like continuing with sex. It is that simple. Also after making her cum, I would finish in mere minutes afterwards.

Now many times she skipped her turn. And it was hardly ever the case she was so turned on that you could just make her cum in minutes. It was usually a slow build up or massaging her tits etc. Like warming up a car in an Alaskan winter. And if you moved to fast "Oh I'm too sensitive". Why am I telling you this? Remember the point with women the whole sexual experience is much more in their heads and mental than with men, where it's a real biological urge to fuck.

They say women can also have multiple orgasms, yes I know this is true IN THEORY. In reality I've never once met a woman who WANTED multiple orgasms.

Once a woman has orgasmed from clitoral stimulation, her clitoris is extremely sensitive, too sensitive to even touch, certainly no way you will get her to orgasm again from this. It is uncomfortable. Don't believe me? Do a survey.

One thing I want to talk about too, is the cum first method. This is some kind of hack where you cum once quickly, so you can go longer -> pure vaginal intercourse. Only in my experience it isn't that she enjoys this. I'm almost certain they enjoy the anticipation of you cumming because amazingly their moans and groans seem to be less intense, after you've come once. What the fuck? Now that you've cum, you're able to really fuck them for long and hard, and yet I feel like the excitement is somehow lost. I'm sure others can relate to this. This isn't porn. Fuck them long enough and they'll tell you "Ok I'm sore, or ok enough"

So I'll finish with their enjoyment of sex with you is how they perceive you. If they feel they have worked to secure you, or some shit like this, vs men who just enjoy the fucking.