I remember I found it because my girlfriend of 3 months had broken up with me, and I felt like shit. I had never felt worse, and to add salt to injury I found out she hooked up with another guy very soon after.

When I first came here, I was 155lb skinny fat, pale as shit, and dressed like a homeless man. I remember I skyped with GLO and he got me on a good diet (eating clean), and a good workout routine. I was very insecure back then, and I remember that he even gave me some advice. He made fun of me for having a monotone voice and because I sounded boring and like a loser, lol.

I took his lifting advice, and I am now at 170 lb, about 10-11% body fat. When I go out, I get girls smiling at me, and even approaching me (it happens often). Not to suck my own dick, but why wouldn't they, I look hot as fuck and I love it.

Then, I remember I got tinder. I would go on dates, and I would try to have intellectual conversations and really get to know the girls. I would open up to them and tell them about my dreams and desires, and that'd usually result in them ending the date early and they'd HARD next me. It wasn't until one of my mentors here told me that on dates you pretty much have to entertain the women, which meant, just get her to laugh a lot and ask the right questions. It took like 10-15 failed tinder dates to come to that conclusion. Women just want to have fun. They don't want to hear about my week, or my problems, or my goals and grades. They just want to have a good time. Telling stories and playing games (like 20 questions or would you rather), or just talking confidently about random shit works well for me. They usually start asking me personal questions after that too. Also most importantly, you will always have to do the "work" by touching them a lot and kissing them - they will never initiate, just hint when they're ready.

After I found out that women like to have fun, it took me a while to find out that women like to keep things ambiguous. On first dates, I would ask girls what they were looking for romantically, and I would tell them what I was looking for. P.S., if you're looking for commitment (which you shouldn't) you have to frame it like they are forcing it upon you, and you're not sold on it and have to think about it.

After I learned all those lessons, I started getting multiple dates with the same girls. Here I learned that women play games, and the red pill always proves right. At the end of the day, it comes down to power. I thought I was above the red pill, and started doing beta things (getting clingy -- I would hamster it off as aggressiveness/desire for them). And, I paid the price. Girls really respond well to indifference. If you seem more interested in them than they are in you, you will get jerked around like a little bitch. The games they play are very crazy and manipulative.