1. Emotions: We all know that women are emotional beings. Their emotions are powerful, although I don't believe any more powerful than men's, it's just that their emotions take impetus and change frequently. In a relationship, when men are not feeling 'in love' with their wife, they defer to virtue during those times such as commitment, honor, and respect. Women, however, defer to getting emotional spikes through external validation such as Facebook Selfies, Emotional Affairs, drama, increased fights (push-pull), jealousy and other things that cause malignancies in relationships. You will never be able to keep her happy all the time, and when she isn't, prepare for misery during each and every time that happens (weekly, monthly, bi-monthly, etc.) This also stems beyond you. She will make life changes on a whim also, which directly impact you (employment, housing, etc).

  2. Importance: You will never be important enough for her. Why? Because you're only ONE man. In a world where women are highly influenceable by social media, you are never going to be able to compete with all of her fantasies and idealisms. You might be great in one area, business, music, art, etc. Even perhaps top of your arena. But you will never be everything. You might be a successful businessman, but she will pine after a taste of the musician. You might be the musician but she will pine after the taste of Fighter Pilot. It's all shoved in her face daily, and she's connected at a mouse click away from all of these men. If she's attractive they will be over in 60 minutes. With social media there is no such thing as relationship loyalty or security.

  3. Money: Money will never, really, be enough. You can make six figures, but if she gets a stab at a millionaire, why would she stick with you? With the inception of sex-for-pay sites it's no wonder why 'money matters', if it didn't these sites wouldn't be thriving right now. With the pushing of feminist ideals, women are suggested to live a life of 'travel - explore - kittens'. There is no impetus on settling down, if ever, so why not just bang for money and live the feminist dream life of traveling constantly with no responsibilities? Well, of course, the shit hits the fan eventually, but that's later right?

Now Let's Talk About Why You Will Never Be Happy

  1. Vulnerability: Women always like to talk about how they want their men to be vulnerable with them. You also want to be able to be vulnerable with your woman. What the hell is the point of being tied down with someone if you can't even talk about shit that is stressing you out or making you sad? The truth is, every woman I've been with has asked me to be vulnerable. Sometimes I would. I might talk about how work is stressing me out, or I need to change jobs. Within a day I could immediately notice the attitude shift. Every woman would immediately begin distancing herself from me or starting drama. You will never 'really be able to be real' with your woman. That doesn't sound like happiness to me, it sounds more like sleeping with the enemy.

  2. You Have No Leverage: You never have leverage, ever. If she's attractive, you WILL lose when push comes to shove every time. Why? Two reasons, demand and supply and the law. With demand and supply you will never be able to compete, even if you are a top 20%, if she is a top 30% (aka not fat) you lose. And let's face it why would anyone date a woman who isn't attractive? You are replaceable in minutes. It's just like an employer in a employers market. Why put up with you as an employee (maybe they just don't like your weird neck ties) when they have 500 resumes in their desk drawer? You, on the other hand, are like the employee competing with 499 other resumes. If you are married, you have subzero leverage. Not only do you have no say, but in a blink of an eye, everything that is yours is now hers. No one can be happy when they realize they have no control of a situation AT ALL, especially when it pertains to their own human rights and dignity.

  3. She Doesn't Love You: It's simply true. Now I'm not saying she doesn't love you today. Maybe she does today, and in the same way you love her. But as for the first reason of emotions, is that female love only exists in a temporary vacuum. Today she may love you with all her heart, and she's not lying when she says that. But tomorrow the wind blows left, and now she is having doubts -- that is also 100% real when she says that. A third day goes by and she steps in a piece of dog shit, now she doesn't love you at all. A 9th day goes by and she sees a photo of you on her iPhone, she loves you again. The cycle continues. This constant polarity doesn't sound like happiness. Human beings need some degree of certainty in life to be happy. Although there is no TRUE certainty, there are certainly degrees of it.

Just a few reasons, but after a decade + of dating, it always boils down to those reasons. After all this time I’ve finally realized it’s all smoke and mirrors — And in dating, with enough time, the biggest winners are also the biggest losers.