Struggling to overcome the desire for female validation

Darth_Toenail · 2018-01-30T05:14:23+00:00

Take up serial killing. But only as a hobby, not a career.

ChrisBrownApologist · 2018-01-30T04:06:45+00:00

Jerk your meat

gantz_au · 2018-01-30T07:07:24+00:00

You're 25? I have good news for you then! This is around the time when you start to get a handle on those hormones of yours that have been plaguing you since your teenage years.

You'll start to notice as you go from 25 to 30 that you'll start to mellow out about women and have a much clearer head when it comes to their bullshit.

beastmodeking · 2018-01-30T04:37:34+00:00

Reading no more mr nice guy is the bible when it comes for trying to free yourself from female validation

Mchooofer · 2018-01-30T07:58:28+00:00

First.. it's not biologically ingrained .. it's That your sense of worth has been conditioned to be depended on female validation.. how do you get over it ? Stop thinking about women in a lustfull way. Stop looking at porn. (It keeps your subconscious attached to females) and become more aware

2018-01-30T08:25:25+00:00

Ask yourself, logically, what can the typical western woman offer you? Most MGTOWs would say only pussy. That's the thing about going your way though: you have to determine as to why not invest in female validation.

The only instance I would seek a female's validation or input is if I could judge her by her actions and merit. Words mean nothing. I try to judge each person I meet as an individual, but keep what I've learned about evolutionary psychology, biology, female nature. In doing so, I think I don't attract as many women because I come off as cold. The sad thing about being a realist or holding your truth to be the standard everyone should meet, it gets lonely. That's when you jerk it. Just kidding, but not really.

I've been reading more about Stoicism and Marcus Aurelius's Meditations. I've come to realize that you should only be concerned over things you can control. What women think of you is influenced by so many things beyond your control, it's easier to let it go.

buff_minorcan · 2018-01-30T08:37:39+00:00

Seek the validation of men, you'll find you've accomplished a great deal more.

2018-01-30T07:36:47+00:00

Come back to this sub whenever you feel weak.

Meanwhile, work on things that would impress yourself. Learn a new skill. Preferably in an environment with little or no women.

secant128 · 2018-01-30T09:51:31+00:00

Rub one out, take your daily dosage of red pill, and give zero fuck about what they think of you. Just focus on what you do for the day and move on. Practice daily and you'll soon enter a more calm and zen state and your life will be so much more peaceful, no drama no bullshit.

ChrisBrownApologist · 2018-01-30T12:48:08+00:00

No but in all seriousness, I have the same problem. Solution is pump and dump, never get emotionally attached, hookers, etc.

sentinel46 · 2018-01-30T13:46:35+00:00

It is similar to how a prisoner becomes conditioned to wanting their captor to be pleased with them. It is an emotional cycle brought on by the influence of our environment. Recognize that. Take steps to get off that treadmill. One positive step is limiting as much as possible, outright elimination is impossible, advertising in all its forms. All of it is designed to keep you on that treadmill. For me though, I am my most demanding critic. I get pissed at myself when I fail to reach my potential. Female justification of any kind is at best a Pyrrhic victory. Hollow. Costs too much.

PabloEscoba · 2018-01-30T22:47:57+00:00

Study red pill truths about female nature

Title	Struggling to overcome the desire for female validation
Author	Stay_In_Yo_Lane
Upvotes	17
Comments	14
Date	January 30, 2018 4:02 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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