There's that cliche that goes: "Look, you can't possibly consider yourself a failure with women. You come from a long line of reproductive successes - the fact that you are here solidifies the truth that all your ancestors were successful [in the mating rat-race]".
So I look at it more closely and critically...
My granddad was the ultimate blue-piller. Married at the age of 35, to a first controlling woman who took "pity" on him & considered him great asset (in terms of how predictable and manageable he was). Sexless marriage, servitude, being a "responsible adult", and all that. The deal he was handled wasn't the worst out there, though (as per today's standards) - a life of hard work, married to a woman, who herself only knew hard work.
My dad was clueless guy. Met some plain Jane in high-school, and married her, out of "true love". Plain Jane proved unsuitable, and "true love" didn't move mountains. She buried his dreams, turned bipolar, and cucked & divorced him later on. To this day, that bitch loiters around, moaning about her futile efforts on "becoming finally happy".
Both of these guys:
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Were treated crappy by women.
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Didn't exactly "live" their lives.
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Wouldn't make it in today's dating world.
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Don't comprehend today's realities (with Tinder sloots and all).
So that's an interesting thought. What's the contemporary mating ratio, again? 60% of guys who can't get any, 20% who get some on some rare occasions, and 20% players who fuck everything? Hmmm. I think I'm definitely in a better position than both my dad and granddad (skill-wise, achievement-wise)... and that, with my current market value, leaves somewhere at the 60% mark, I guess (a king of the losers).
Also an interesting note how these blue-pillers never talk about strategy and/or awareness and/or self-respect regarding women. These two, they taught me virtually nothing of value in that regard.
If I do a simplified induction here (a generalization), I think that in today's climate, those blue-pillers are on a road to extinction. Also, I don't consider myself a continuation of some "legacy of reproductive successes" - on the contrary, I feel like mistake (hell, why am I even here?)
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