Help! My parents are questioning my personal life?!

RedFoxOnFire · 2017-01-20T05:52:09+00:00

Parents are easy. Give them the line about "not finding the right one" while not mentioning that there is no right one, nor are you looking.

Becoming an athletic trainer?

Here's some tips. Always, always wear a condom. Girls are going to start using you like crazy. Don't invest time and money in them. Focus on your goals. If they want to fuck you, then let them if you feel like it, then leave them. If you don't, then just leave them. (Careful, they'll want you more if you deny them) And watch out for girls who say they're just DTF, and then whine when they suddenly want more. Never trust them, college girls will pass STD's around like facebook emojees. Put a rubber on it, don't let them trap you with pregnancies. Never fuck a drunk girl, cause she'll claim rape.

2017-01-20T06:29:03+00:00

nice. 18 and mgtow.

don't listen to the ones that say your too young to be mgtow, fuck that, they had to burn their hand in the fire to learn it was hot, you don't have to.

as for your parents wanting grandchildren, tell them to go fuck themselves... tough shit, you don't want kids, its not up to them.

"pfft no, never going to happen, deal with it" - said that to my parents 4 years ago when they asked/demanded never been asked since.

2017-01-20T14:27:48+00:00

Show them the land whales on tinder. That is the market. That is why you are not finding any women worth dating.

reptilianoverlord94 · 2017-01-20T09:52:42+00:00

I tell them straight I'm not interested in woman and I think marriage is a sham I tell everyone that. Dad understands, mum thinks I could be gay, I think I don't care what they think. Your life they chose to marry and have kids, that's what THEY wanted. It's your turn to live life do whatever you want, I would advise against marrying but your 18 don't make decisions too early. I'm 22 and I am happy to be celibate for the rest of my life. I just don't care much for sexuality. I'd rather have no sex drive.

2017-01-20T09:58:36+00:00

Tell them if they want something they need to pay for it. Tell them you'll accept monthly deposits of $2000. Of course move out first before telling them this. Also it's not your parents, it's your mother.

FanofLemmy · 2017-01-20T05:54:01+00:00

Just tell them you're gay instead and like men. That would shut them up, I'd think. Or, tell them you're gonna focus on school for now and maybe meet a nice girl in college. Keep passing the excuses around until they give up.

BTW, anyone in the fitness industry is either a blow hard, or a whore. I work in it and each person is either an "alpha" or a super sloot. Prepare yourself. My advice, shave your head and grow a beard and you'll fit right in.

2017-01-20T07:55:50+00:00

Well, I am going through what you are going, so my best bet is being brutally truthful, that does work. You still get those questions, but keep the truth and those questions will lower in both hardness and frequency.

redThrow10 · 2017-01-20T09:19:20+00:00

The main thing you should be careful about is dumping lots of money at college for a degree without knowing how to connect to a job at the other end.

How do you obtain employment with your sports training degree? If you want to be a PE teacher, that's going to require a teaching credential. If you want to be a personal trainer, that's going to require having the know-how to set up your own business. For personal training, you may not even need to go to university, you may be able to get certifications from other organizations.

Protect your money. If you can't give three solid reasons why college is a must-have... maybe there is an alternative way that costs less.

Also, don't be a man whore. Maintain professional distance. Clients pay for your time to be coached, end of interaction.

2017-01-20T13:35:20+00:00

Just tell them you don't exist purely to give them grandchildren and to be in a relationship with a girl.

2017-01-20T18:50:07+00:00

I told my parents "Girls cost money man, I want to achieve financial stability first and be financially independent."

My dad agreed with me. Mostly because all his paychecks go to my mom and he ends up having to withdraw his stock money lol.

mofono · 2017-01-20T22:19:13+00:00

There are two options. One is to be vague and give non-answers such as "it is in God's hands!!!"

If this doesn't work and they keep coming back, just give it to them straight: "what is the point of marriage? I don't want to waste my money on dating! The latest economic study shows one child costs more than $400k. Children are a waste of money! Marriage is a tool designed to enslave men and harvest their resources."

quasimoto127 · 2017-01-20T06:02:58+00:00

You're 18, I wouldn't define yourself by MGTOW just yet.

Title	Help! My parents are questioning my personal life?!
Author	JoeHeroX
Upvotes	7
Comments	16
Date	January 20, 2017 4:58 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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