Female friends

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2016-10-27T15:23:24+00:00

Any close female friend I've ever had was either trying to get me to commit, or keeping me as a backup plan. Not a single one ever returned a major favor that I did for her. Not one.

sfactor360 · 2016-10-27T15:39:35+00:00

My former best friend of 8 years was a woman. We stopped talking completely recently when she started seeing some guy. She put me right on the back burner for someone she literally just met and even claimed that "he was the one". Women are too emotional, fickle, and messed up mentally to even be friends with, let alone date, in my opinion.

Thinkpadoutlaw · 2016-10-27T16:27:37+00:00

Friend? What's a friend? I only have victims.

JStheHammer · 2016-10-27T19:13:08+00:00

Female friend is an oxymoron.

dot_dot_beep · 2016-10-27T18:35:43+00:00

Yes I used to have a close female friend back in my BP days. She was the epitome of hypergamy. New boyfriend every month or two, and even travelled to Thailand with a rich old guy, probably riding his cock every night. She doesn't have a fixed adress even today because she lives off her temporary fuck buddies. Eats their food and has free rent. She would call me to cry about how her life is terrible from travelling in exchange of cock and how men are terrible to her. Eventually I burnt the bridges, I wasn't her friend, just her emotional spunge.

5foot6withoutheels · 2016-10-27T20:22:36+00:00

The female "Friends" i have continually want me to do shit for them, drive them around, take them to xyz, its not a mutually beneficial exchange and I don't really enjoy their company so i've stopped hanging out with them.

One of them had the audacity to ask me for money, I didn't agree, then she used a story about her family getting some large money soon and she'd be entitled to it, that was 6 months ago, she hasn't got the money yet. I think she originally told me this story to make me believe she'll have money down the line so if i pony up now i'll be rewarded later or some BS, this is my "friend". I helped her move to her new apartment and was given nothing back in return, oh she wanted sex with me, inviting me over to watch tv but honestly I dont want sex with her, I'm not attracted to this person at all...the "Friendship" began at college in my blue pill days because I had no one else in class to talk to, this person was older so I thought I could ask for advice but ultimately it became a chore doing stuff for this person and them asking for money broke the camels back.

The other female "friend" recently asked about my other car i'm selling, this female friend also has money issues, she's terrible with it and when i was dating her at the time she always brought up how she was short on money but I never gave it up. I took her to dinner a few times and bought her some groceries but I never actually gave her cash...

They have nothing to offer other than sex, talking to them is not that great, they ask me to do stuff for them when I never really ask them to do stuff for me and one overtly asked me for money while the other one is more subtle about it...

I'm good alone thanks.

TalesAbound · 2016-10-27T20:31:36+00:00

I do have a few good few female friends actually. One of the three people I consider my best friends is a girl I've known for 14 years. There's never really been any romantic or sexual tension between us, though people have suggested we'd be a good couple or should be a couple, we've never really taken it seriously. She's said I'm like a brother, and I suppose I am. Honestly she's a very good friend, great company, very loyal and a good confidant.

I've got another good female friend who I started my job with; she's helped me with some job stuff, and I helped her get into a relationship (with a guy from a team I once worked in) which is now working well.

There's quite a few other female friends I have, some from my uni town who still invite me back for social events. They're typically part of mixed groups of guys and girls together. Historically (I. Each. Up to my early 20s) I had more friendships with women than with men; in my mid twenties, and even more so since I took the red pill, I've tried to prioritise male friendships, but it's not like I'm trying for to throw away the ones I have with female friends.

aanarchist · 2016-10-27T20:38:49+00:00

yea i have one. she's never fucked with my head and tries to be good to other people. she's socially kinda derpy but it's hard not to like her, she's kinda clammy sometimes though. the clincher is she didn't go to public school since she was 13 or so so she didn't get into the social manipulation game. she also has a medical condition which means she can't just mindlessly live the party lifestyle in her 20s and ride cc. she makes jokes about her shitty genes etc but it literally saved her, she could have become her mom. sounds to me more like she won the genetic lottery.

cynicalsimon · 2016-10-27T22:44:30+00:00

There is no such thing as 'friends' with adult men and women. If a women says she 'wants to be your friend', you tell her to fuck right off. You know exactly what it means when she says that right? She wants you as her slave/bitch and when she acts dumb, you call her out on it and you leave.

boogalooshrimp1103 · 2016-10-28T05:18:53+00:00

I have one we go to football games together but ive known her since i was 9. Shes a trainwreck 2 kids 2 dads divorved 3 times and on anti depressants. Everything we love to hate about women.

iAMTinman_Dealwithit · 2016-10-27T19:25:19+00:00

As far as women, I have a revolving harem of girls from Tinder/PoF I keep in my phone for when I need it. MANY acquaintances. I just go out and do my own thing, and usually will see someone I know or just make magic happen. I'm ambiverted, and could spend a weekend inside just relaxing or go out and dance all over a club. I could give a speech in front 5k people, no problem - BUT, also enjoy my time alone.

Krabbylover3 · 2016-10-27T20:04:16+00:00

4 female friends, speak to 2 more than the rest actually, I don't care about them as much, now its lifting and boxing...

socketcrown · 2016-10-28T08:51:24+00:00

not really, it usually seems like trouble because it has to be a relationship or risks whatever relationship they have, you know that kind of thing

Title	Female friends
Author	bigdaddy972
Upvotes	12
Comments	21
Date	October 27, 2016 3:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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