I been learning about MGTOW stuff for past year or two. Here's a recent story:

  • Met some girl online.
  • Pretty chill at first.
  • Talk for around 3 months.
  • Lots of shit tests, but I pass most of them.
  • Starts talking about more and more boring stuff. She has no substance. 0 intellectual interests. No hobbies or plays any games. So boring, I realize more and more, we have nothing in common.
  • Eventually some convo leads to says she likes me, but then not in "that way". Clearly she does express interest in me, via the way she talks and uses a lot of emoticons. Also, says she wanted to visit me IRL at some point. Sounds like I got friendzoned, but idc, she still sounds like a good person.
  • Asks me if I thought she looked good... she seems quite self conscious and needs validation from men constantly.
  • Pretends that I'm obligated to help her with things, but I say no, my time is precious. Unless there was a fair exchange.
  • Starts telling me about her meeting good looking guys.
  • Realize more and more, she was turning me to some male utility for her validation.
  • I tell her straight up, I don't care about her love life, but I'm interested in her ideas and her hobbies perhaps.
  • Blocks me and disconnects from me. (lool!)

Realized I've been quite Purple Pill- somewhat beta but still giving her shit. Then... I had a MGTOW moment, realize how women view us men as disposable cogs. Also noticed that she probably has a ring of guys that validate her, so I bounced out because I was probably one of them...

Am I sad? Nope, I'm glad I'm done with her, what a waste of time. Was purely online anyway.

Now... back to studying some evolutionary psych and watch some MGTOW videos again to really solidify and internalize it...

Also can focus more on my hobbies, business, and career goals!

What were your experiences with women? Anything similar? Thoughts?