"I texted this girl and omgg I can't believe I got her number I've never felt like this before idk what it is but I can't leave her hanging I gotta reply as quickly as possible so she knows I've always got her omg I would love to hold her and keep her sheltered I just want to hold someone she's perfect she's 4'9 and sooo adorable I just wanna give her all my cards and she can max them out because she's mine"
Listen, a lot of men are like this. But I don't think it is fair to call them stupid, even outside of society conditioning men to be pussies from day one, men get off to the idea of taking care of someone, of being that person's whole life. This is why guys like the concept of clingy girls before they actually date a clingy girl. They think it's adorable.
But in this day and age, women have learned to take advantage of this.
It still feels good to pretend the pillow I'm hugging at night is a girl. I can't get over it, I want someone. I like cute and cuddly shit, anyone here watch Azumanga? I like that shit. But then when I actually see women in public, even women that are cute and short (you know, the type you'd love to have in your arms) I just start to think that what's in my head will always stay in my head.
Women aren't going to be these sweet angels. A lot of women try to act ghetto (as that has been popular lately, hip hop culture and whatnot) and they just hop onto random bandwagons. And the women that don't follow bandwagons and look unique, always end up having a really fatal flaw, to the point where a relationship really isn't worth it. (Crazies)
There are no women that are what I want them to be. There are tons of guys on r/TRP gaining tons of muscles so women can use their bodies. Women can get the aggressive, muscular, hard hitting men they want, but a man can't get a sweet and kind girl.
Is it that we have unrealistic expectations? I wouldn't say so, can't there be women that are just sweet in nature, and act genuine?
EDIT: The title is just a reflection on the quote in the beginning. I just wanted to highlight that men aren't getting what they want from women, yet women are always getting the type of men they like.
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I am half jealous of you, half sad about the reality of your situation. When I was young, I was caught up in the exact same situation. Sometimes, I really miss how much I was able to feel for a girl. These days, I am mostly numb. I honestly hope for the best. I would love to hear that you met a unicorn and that it all worked out for you. I really want that to happen and I will continue to hope that it does. Realistically, my broken side will not allow me to accept that a relationship can ever be positive. I am forced to imagine that you are being set up for failure. At some point, I am expecting the other shoe to fall. I hate that I have become so predispositioned to expect the worst. Unfortunately, that is the reality of modern relationships.
The saddest part is that the better you treat her, the fastest she will become corrupted.
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Some guy does win the lottery, or finds that golden ticket in life. You read like you really deserve it, so for what it's worth, I hope you're one that does.
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That's a good question, that I spent over a decade searching for, and trying to create the perfect conditions for. Obviously I didn't succeed. Maybe a couple could've had potential, had I not given up on them, but they showed no signs of really caring for my point of view or best interest. I think it's honestly just the flip side on the 80/20 ratio, but I'm pretty sure I haven't seen near 20% wifey material women.
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Lol- America, I think you might be on to something there!
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