I know the popular meme is that women who are 400 lbs, obese and 50 years old can land "alphas", but that is total horseshit.

I've been all over the USA, even in Silicon Valley / hypergamy central.

I've NEVER NEVER EVER seen a woman in her 30s dating, let alone having a fuck buddy, of a guy who legit good looking, 6'3+, muscular, six pack, etc.

At best they'll get a short dumpy guy with a decent career who has some money.

You can substitute the word date with "relationship", fuck buddy, or whatever you want.

Legit good looking guys never go for women over 30.