This is a story about my friends named (for the sake of this story) Gabe, and his girlfriend at the time, Sasha. It is about the most typical single mom story you could get. But I assure you it's a true story and I figure it's not going to hurt just to throw it up on here as it might be use to someone or just reinforce people's beliefs.

Anyways, Gabe and Sasha were both highschool classmates of mine who were a year ahead of me. Both of them were highschool sweethearts. Gabe was more of a punk rock dude and Sasha was this chick who was more in the 'preppy' crowd and was very attractive and had many guys fawning over her. Gabe was in my circle of friends, but I wasn't that close with him. If anything I was closer with Sasha as I had Algebra 2 with her and she helped me pass that class. She also came from a well-off family and lived in a wealthy neighborhood in our city. (which is confusing because most girls who have illegitimate kids in their teens come from low income households) Anyways, Gabe ends up graduating and going out of state to a somewhat prestigious university and his relationship status with Sasha was ambiguous. Fast Forward almost a year into Gabe's first year of University and he has to go back home because Sasha was having his kid. Now what happened was there was some summer lovin' that resulted in accidental pregnancy and this bitch flat out LIED to Gabe telling him that she was going to have an abortion. Only that the abortion part wasn't true, and by the time Gabe found this out it was too late to get rid of the baby. Mind you they are both ~19-20 years old.

Since I was still friends with Sasha and still in High School I went to their her baby shower at the local park. It was only her and a bunch of other kids from her graduating class. A lot of which were guys who were Sasha's orbiters all through High School. So pathetic that you would go to the BABYSHOWER of the girl you have a crush on And I brought diapers and whatnot naively thinking 'wow, my first friend who is having a baby!, so cool!'. Gabe wasn't at the baby shower, neither were either of their parents. The whole thing was pretty cringey and depressing.

As expected, I rarely saw Sasha after she gave birth, but Gabe had moved back in-state probably because of some sort of legal pressure, and/or pressure from his family and her family. As a result of him having to put his life on hold right after finally becoming an adult and getting out of the public school merry-go-round, he became very ornery and depressed. He started getting tons of shitty tattoos, started dressing in only black and never showering or grooming. He also started doing a lot of graffiti around the city for about 2 years. A lot of generally reckless and self-destructive behavior. It was like an very premature mid-life crisis all no doubt caused by his cunt ex-gf.

Fast forward about 6 years and we are at the present moment. Sasha's kid is a walking talking boy now and his step-father is one of Sasha's orbiter's from highschool. (too stereotypical I know, but im not making this up!).

Like I said in the first paragraph. As I get older I think about Gabe a lot, and what this girl did to him. But more often I think about their kid. Now that he is about 8 years old now, the negative effects of what his mom did to him I imagine are going to be taking a toll on him. Sasha no doubt talks tons of shit about Gabe, and this orbiter step-dad can't give their kid the guidance like a biological father can give to him. Since their son is 8 or so, he is probably exploring his masculinity every day at school. Getting in tussels with other boys, having crushes. He has no father figure to support him through this.

I saw this shit right in front of my eyes bros. Another misguided fatherless child churned out to be let loose into society. A kid who will likely only get attention from his selfish mother, detached stepfather, and depressed father. This bitch was the one who set it all in motion too. You really can't trust these hoes. Watching all of this happen was hard. But damn do I use it as a reference in dealing with women. I will never end up like Gabe. Thank you TRP.