Were you raised in a feminist family? If you had a sister, was she the apple of your parents' eye more than you were?

dacyai · 2015-04-16T21:38:16+00:00

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mr_throwz · 2015-04-17T01:42:07+00:00

My mom was a raging, abusive narcissist. She physically abused me until I was about 10 years old, and continued to mentally and verbally terrorize me until I finally left home and voluntarily entered into homelessness to get away from her at the age of 19. My father was either working (sometimes 12-14 hour days), or at home being incessantly nagged and browbeaten by her. I was an only child, so no sister to compare to. My mom never particularly espoused any feminist views, but she DEFINITELY thinks the entire onus should be on the man, and only values men based on their income and what they can do for her.

The school system, however, was definitely totally and completely feminist where I grew up, with plenty of girls and boys to compare. Girls could do no wrong, and even when they did, they barely got any punishment. Girl threw sand in my eyes? No punishment. In fact I got detention because while I was flailing about blinded by the assault, my arm hit her shoulder. Girl kicked me in the balls so hard I threw up and almost had to go to the hospital? No biggy - just write the lad a 3 sentence apology note. I fell off the jungle gym, dislocating my thumb - but my dirty, male cranium hit a girl on the way down and she got a bloody nose? Well now - lad, you'd better write a full entire page apology letter to her and her family, and you don't get recess for the next 3 weeks.

Some girl in shop class telling me to show her my dick, going so far as to grab my pants and try to pull them down? Telling me I must be a "dirty faggot homosexual bitch" or have a "small little Cheetoh dick" because I won't disrobe for her right there in front of everyone? No biggy. Oh, I called her a fat little troll? Jeez, time for another apology note and a week suspension.

2015-04-17T04:28:16+00:00

My mother told me that Gloria Steinem was an inspiration to her. I never knew she was into women's lib in her college days, but my parents were quasi-hippies, so I should have figured as much. It is hard to see the forest through the trees though, and I only realized these distinctions after moving out, and MGTOW, and years of perspective. I asked my mom about her views on feminism when I told her I was never getting married, after I had seen her eviscerate my father in divorce. He died of a brain aneurism in 2009 after the housing bubble popped. The irony was that he had built his own house (a very nice house), and only needed a mortgage (during the housing bubble) because of the divorce - to pay off my mom's equity... She did not build the house, but she liked to take credit for gardening because it was "hard work" (compared to what? Working 40+ hours and building a house and a college degree in engineering? Gardening, for most people, is a hobby, but whatever) .

She took the money and ran. And my dad was a beta who would help her out after the divorce. They were "on good terms".

Anyways my dad dated a total skag because he was in his mid 50s and divorced, what else was he going to do? He still valued women and validation in a twisted way.

You asked about my sister:

She was beaten far less than I was... In fact, I don't remember her ever even being spanked once. She was an entitled bitch and left the house when she got her driver's license and never looked back. She lost her virginity at a young age, now she's a European economist. Ha! Good luck to her.

I'm estranged from both mother and sister now. My mom couldn't own up to the child abuse. She terrorized me something fierce, and when I patiently explained what she did was wrong, she never apologized.

People sometimes give me shit for cutting ties with my mother, so I rarely tell people, and just try to explain that I was beaten as a child and that I have no obligation to her now that she's getting old.

My dad also beat me on occasion (both of them went above and beyond spanking, but spanking, too, is fucked up. Especially when you consider that the ass is an erogenous zone, and spanking is some real fetish shit... to touch a kid's ass is... wrong. Very wrong. But I digress), so he wasn't some bastion of male virtue. He was a henpecked husband with his own problems. I was, occasionally, a release valve for a failing marriage.

I was the youngest of 3, btw. Shit rolls downhill.

TL;DR flower-child-feminist family produced a leftist economist girl who is probably helping to destroy the eurozone, and beat their youngest son pretty savagely.

Man, fuck that shitty worldview. I'm glad I got the fuck out. MGTOW for life.

mr_throwz · 2015-04-17T05:27:50+00:00

My teacher in 3rd grade sent me to the office every day. I was related to the principle and she took all her anger towards him out on to me. I sat in that office for hours until lunch. Most of my women teachers were feminists that wanted their hug boxes safe, but I never conformed. I said I didn't want to read a book because it was written by a women, I was in the 4th grade. The teacher got pissed and sent me into anger management with all the bad kids that fought in the playground. Get a load of this, there was not a single girl in detention of 18 boys. Also they tried to convince my mom to put me on pills and they gave me double doses of fluoride tablets. God bless mom for not giving me those pills.

Way back in in high school my teacher made me take special ed because I wrote "I didn't want a women president because she will use the fact that she had a pussy to market her campaign". I also wrote something about gays and she flipped. She was so politically correct when I said "what's up nigga" to a friend in class she flipped. She even cut out all the swastika on WWII books. My friend said "would you pound that girl over there?" he points to some unfortunate looking girl. I say "fuck na nigga" Teacher must have heard and she promptly wrote me up. She wrote on my slip " he said fuck no nigger, and what's up my nigger" She even told the black lunch lady that I was cool with about what "i said". I never got seconds again and the lunch lady gave me dirty looks from then on. That teacher cunt's fired now,and unemployed.

But the girls were rarely punished, one chick started beating the fuck out of another and was suspended for 2 days. Looking back now all the teachers were mean to the boys were women. They were hard to approach and their classes were less hands on, I learned but all the girls got top grades. The guy teachers taught us, not just about class work but other things like work ethic, scolding us sternly not putting us down, hands on learning, became our friends, will let shit slide that women teachers would mark us down for, and the list goes on. The women teachers shoved their ideology down our throats and wanted us to think like them. You can't say this because it will hurt these people's feelings, bla bla.

The media has the population thinking all male teachers are prone to fucking their students. They are making it almost impossible for men to school kids so they could raise them, and pollute their minds with sneak feminism. They try to give boys pills calling being playful ADHD. Boys aren't more likely to have it, it's just women teachers are more likely to pick on the boys and tell their parents to give them pills because Timmy was talking in class to his bro in English. Since there are more women teachers teaching these kids, there are more feminists that secretly despise boys. It's no coincidence that boys are more likely to have ADHD and 76 percent of public school teachers are female. Those hateful succibi try to target them early.

thrownaway_MGTOW · 2015-04-17T00:39:52+00:00

Nope to the feminist family, and no sisters personally, though I did see what happens with little "princesses" in the family through friends and relatives (and of course some of the chicks I dated had brothers, and yeah they got shat on in comparison).

All roommates inevitably have "women" in tow which is a ticket to misery especially if you're blue pill and don't have any idea about female nature. Get a male roommate and he'll bring over a woman;

But I just wanted to chime in with an "Oh Gawds, how true is THAT!" comment about the above with male roommates having women "in tow". Although you didn't complete the last sentence, and you need to add in the rest of the story:

Get a male roommate and he'll bring over a woman and she'll either try to "set up house" within your domain, or else parasitically consume your food, booze, and otherwise attempt to burn through YOUR resources as well as her boyfriend's.

Including things indirectly like your buddy borrowing tools without asking... why? well to go fix something over a Miss Bitch's place. Or wanting to know if he can borrow your truck for the weekend... what for? Well, Princess is moving... etc.

That's one reason why when I help guys out by giving then a cheap place to crash ... well it's for a limited time, and pretty much as soon as they start casting about for a female to take on as a girlfriend, I push them towards the door.

If they're back on their feet sufficiently to start being "providers" to some cunt, then they're doing well enough to get their own place too. And there's no way I'm going to subsidize THAT kind of nonsense (any more than I am required to via taxes).

2015-04-17T06:14:32+00:00

Not particularly. As the oldest child I was expected to be the example of the hard-working family man, but it was more in the traditional sense than the more modern one red pill guys complain about. Growing up my sister often felt like she had to live up to the standards I set and tried to follow my example, and in a way I think she still does. She lives alone, makes six figures, travels the world, and I'm proud as hell of her.

Since my parent's divorce, after he got himself back on his feet after living out of a car, my dad has been a MGHOW. He now owns a house that he takes great care of without a woman's help, loves his job, and the rest of the time does what he wants when he wants. He's still physically active in his 60s. He's actually been a role model as for me as far as convincing me that yes, I can be happy living like that. He hasn't broken quite entirely free though. He still badly wants to be a grandpa, which I have to be reminded of every time I hang out with him and my little brother.

My mom is not really a feminist, but definitely had that "I deserve to be happy, even at the expense of my kids" thing going on after they got divorced, and she desperately wanted to stick it to my dad of course. The nightmares guys here talk about as far as squandered child support and false accusations of abuse, I've lived them. I lived Child Services trying to coerce me into saying that my dad abused me. I lived having to pick my siblings up from her house because she regularly got wasted on meds and tried to kill herself.

So in a sense, I've been lucky. The red pill was presented to me as an option since even before I wound up in relationships of my own. I didn't have to go through a personal crisis and mental reprogramming to consider GMOW an option.

pirate6728 · 2015-04-17T23:02:36+00:00

I'm the oldest of 4, I have 2 brothers and a sister. Yeah, Dad did let her get away with a lot of things and she was favored slightly-- slightly because there's not a lot you can do on a factory-worker's pay. Right now she and her husband are out by San Diego living on government largess. I have a gig driving a cargo van, my youngest brother is in computer technical support and the middle brother-- is not doing so well. He had a stroke a few years back and that pretty much finished him for any practical purpose.

User-31f64a4e · 2015-04-17T02:43:33+00:00

other than bouts of feeling lonely without them

Lonely is not the same as alone. You can be alone without being lonely. Some social contact is required to keep people from going stir crazy, but having a chick around at all times is not required for this.

oldredder · 2015-04-17T03:52:06+00:00

Not me. My dad's from Asia and there was no feminism there. No sisters here.

ColtsDragoon · 2015-04-17T04:26:25+00:00

you know what a horrible human being you sister is and you have first hand experience of her ruining a mans life and now you steer her towards another man for her to fuck over?

thanks for your help sarcasm

kurtu5 · 2015-04-17T12:13:01+00:00

Don't fret too much. Male children in general are not treated as well as female children.

yatmund · 2015-04-17T13:44:24+00:00

I'm the big brother.

Pretty sure I'm somehow the one that is the shining light of the family.

Yet if anything, I truly believe it's my little sister that is the future. I look up to her more than anyone else.

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Morranaii · 2015-04-17T18:52:40+00:00

my mother wanted me to have kids and marry, without even thinking that I could not, or whether it is something you actually decide yourself. She was back-dated from the generation of LTR and different dynamics, so for her this was normal.

my grandmother for example was a traditionalist - she influenced white knighting in me, even wanted me to be a priest back in the days.... gosh thankfully I never considered such silly ideas :)

Title	Were you raised in a feminist family? If you had a sister, was she the apple of your parents' eye more than you were?
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Date	April 16, 2015 9:23 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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