[To MGTOW's level 1 and 2] What are your demands towards women with whom you sleep with?

victor_knight · 2016-07-25T23:00:25+00:00

No commitment, relationship or real names.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2016-07-25T21:53:43+00:00

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cynicalsimon · 2016-07-26T00:12:12+00:00

what the fuck does mgtow level '1' and '2' mean. there is no such thing as mgtow level 1 and 2

2016-07-25T21:11:15+00:00

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NYCsOwn · 2016-07-26T02:16:40+00:00

it's pretty simple for me.

I get the monogamy part, but if I have an opportunity to explore my options, that's what I do.

I have a FWB right now that I keep on a short leash. she starts to show feelings every now & again but I quickly remind her of what we are to each other. not to be a dick...just to remind her of what she agreed to, hell PROPOSED in the first place. I had no intentions of even going this route as it was just a one off for me.

that's the main thing for me -- honesty + checks/balances. if she wanted to sleep with someone else, I'd be ok with it, primarily because I have slept with other women & have told her about it.

another big thing for me is toning herself down in public. if by chance we do hang out, no public affection. a hot bartender has flirted with me (I know - part of her job) but she actually gave me her number. wound up being in the same bar as the FWB one night, we sat & talked for a bit & she tried to kiss me. I grabbed my drink & put it to my lips before she could. same bartender later texted me joking about how my "girlfriend" didn't leave her a tip when she paid her tab.

in closing...set rules that you're comfortable with. it doesn't matter what she's comfortable with because in the end, you're being honest with her & you're the one that is most affected by your own decisions.

RedBigMan · 2016-07-25T22:30:50+00:00

im Afriad to even have a woman as a fuckbuddy in case she lies and says i raped her and seeks out money from me. is this fear valid?

Zombocom1911 · 2016-07-26T02:39:21+00:00

To not look at casual sex as something I'm gaining from and she's losing from. To look at sex more simply, as a positive, fun, natural thing and just enjoy it without scheming how to trap me. If we feel like seeing each other more often for doing fun activities outside of sex (although, what could be more fun, really?) then just let it happen naturally and not be so full of expectations and assuming it is turning into a serious relationship.

CinematicRacer14 · 2016-07-26T04:16:48+00:00

1: I will not commit to an exclusive relationship. If I actually think she's cool and like fucking I may do an open relationship. But that's it.

2: I don't have to buy or pay for anything. If I choose to then that's different. But I should not be expected to pay for dinners, movie, trips.

3: No yelling. If she yells at me once, she's out.

4: No "you should have known" bullshit. I can't read minds.

I can see myself upgrading to a serial monogamous because it's too much time and energy to get laid if you aren't rich and famous.

User-31f64a4e · 2016-07-26T08:27:17+00:00

imho it's not so much about your demands as it is about not acquiescing to her demands.

freethinker1976 · 2016-07-26T10:15:04+00:00

My only rule is no demands. She can ask but if i say no then that's final.

BukM1 · 2016-07-26T10:33:52+00:00

we can do stuff together we can plan stuff together absolutely just like i can and do with my friends, if i am banging you i like you enough to consider you a friend, but there is nothing outside of that, i dont "owe you" and i dont ever have to justify myself nor my choices the same way i dont have to to my friends.

if you pull a hissy fit its time to leave you alone and spend time with my other friends.

you are a female friend who i find sexually attractive that is all, you have no "authority" or "expectation" of me, nor i you.

once Nagging or anything else materialises, its time to go spend time with other friends.

Title	[To MGTOW's level 1 and 2] What are your demands towards women with whom you sleep with?
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Upvotes	6
Comments	20
Date	July 25, 2016 9:11 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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Comments

1: I will not commit to an exclusive relationship. If I actually think she's cool and like fucking I may do an open relationship. But that's it.

2: I don't have to buy or pay for anything. If I choose to then that's different. But I should not be expected to pay for dinners, movie, trips.

3: No yelling. If she yells at me once, she's out.

4: No "you should have known" bullshit. I can't read minds.