This is the epitome of entitlement. What. The. F$%#.

rell_z · 2016-07-24T18:34:22+00:00

I couldn't even read it

2016-07-24T11:12:25+00:00

That's quite interesting.

What if the husband in lieu of a year-end bonus accordind to her year-end performance gives the wife a tip after every sex act according to her performance during the sex act?

That's defensible as well.

DigitalScetis · 2016-07-24T14:49:47+00:00

Heh...

We don't have to do a thing to make MGTOW grow when things like these do it for us.

Now I read that article from the New York Times that first revealed these "wife bonuses", and let me tell you, there are reasons, very good ones, why those women on Park Avenue get "wife bonuses".

This isn't about cooking, cleaning, taking care of the children and doing typical, stay-at-home wife stuff. There's a staff to do that stuff, and the staff is needed, to free up the wife's time for all the other things that the wife--and only the wife--can do. And if she can't handle the expectations, she will get thrown out of high society to be replaced by a wife who can perform to expectations.

These women are married to some of the most rich and powerful attorneys, financiers, doctors, publishers and executives in New York (and the world), with husbands who make an annual salary easily in the 7 or 8 figures. If you are married to a husband like that, you are married into a lifestyle that comes with a list of expectations that is easily a high risk, full time occupation in itself.

High risk, because a lot of your performance is going to depend on edging out your competition for some of the most discriminating social circles on the planet. Full time because the husband demands that the wife expand the family's footprint in all of the various important places in high society.

They don't simply get bonuses for just existing, like the middle-aged, middle class, suburban MILFs who meet up at Starbucks after hot yoga think they do. These women have to perform, or they get dumped in a divorce, thrown out of high society, and are replaced as the husband trades her in for a younger, hotter and more capable model.

These upper east side Manhattan wives have to perform in a series of tasks that are just as cutthroat as anything you'd see in the business world. They are expected (not suggested, but demanded) to get the kids into elite, highly competitive preschools, private academies, elite summer camps and other activities (music schools, ballet schools, tutors) that demand a lot of politicking with boards of directors and such of said schools.

If Claire down the street can schmooze her daughter into the last spot in the New York City Ballet summer intensive, and you can't because you were "finding yourself," you can forget about your "wife bonus" for that year. If Rebecca from the New York Arts Council can't be schmoozed to throw some grant money to the theater company that your husband promised to deliver, you get thrown off the company's board, and you can forget about your wife bonus. If the ambassador from Paraguay had nothing but bad things to say about your menu choices for the dinner party you hosted, you can forget about your wife bonus; you'd be lucky if your marriage can be salvaged.

They have to coordinate charity balls, sit on the husband's foundation boards, do her own work in schmoozing her way into other foundations on her own time, see to it that the house staff is doing what they ought, see to it that the kids get good grades and that life is on an upward trajectory.

Plus, I think a lot of this is also money to conveniently "look the other way" when the husband is late in coming home, because he had to "brief the new intern," or that he went on the private jet with his "new secretary," or he is going to Milan with some bright young thing from NYU on a "mentorship" program. A prospect of such a bonus is good incentive for her to keep her mouth shut and not blow the marriage up.

If she performs well, makes him look good, keeps the domestic life looking the way it ought, and no unexpected surprises come up, she gets a bonus.

If they do not get results, not only do they get no bonus, but as one woman put it, "the sharks close in" (ambitious women that will seek to replace her).

Middle class suburban women don't understand this; they take one look at the words "wife bonus" and they think that it's a bonus just for being a wife. They say "I'm a wife, why can't I get a bonus from my husband making $75,000/yr. just like the Park Avenue women?" Well MILFie, if you were worth the bonus, you would already be on Park Avenue by now, wouldn't you? That's an exceptional arrangement for exceptional cases.

But you, MILFie, are just a standard housewife who can't do much to place your family's stamp in high society. You can do nothing to advance your husband's standing. You can't even do basic things that high school dropouts can do, like push vacuums and wash dishes, so what, specifically are you doing to add more value to your family and husband that justifies the bonus?

Nothing. So accept that, forget the bonus, be happy for what you have, and invest all your money in the kids, as decent middle class people do.

My-Name-Is-No-One · 2016-07-26T18:19:22+00:00

LOL - "a man gets to go out and slave, I mean, work for his family, while poor woman doesn't have to"

What a fuckin joke - the man is so fortunate to be stuck serving some entitled cunt till she leaves or divorces him! What an honor, what a perk! Why don't more men get married?!

Title	This is the epitome of entitlement. What. The. F$%#.
Author	mgtouche
Upvotes	4
Comments	6
Date	July 23, 2016 9:42 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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