Just wanted to leave my story here.

Redpill, MGTOW, Incels and so on are extremist groups, groups that I liken to terrorist groups on the internet and in real life. Their target is women. They seek to recruit more young men with their delusional ideology and destroy women in anyway possible, even physically.

I feel like I have to come back time and again to remind people why Redpill isn't helping anyone.

More 2 years ago I dated a guy, he was my first boyfriend. I was very inexperienced. So, there were a lot of firsts. At first he was really charming, nice etc. Then he started acting weird. He started accusing me of cheating even though I had never dated before him and I wasn't that kind of person. He started being more pushy with things like "I wanna meet your parents" (even though we'd been dating for a week), or "I don't want you hanging out with any of your friends except me". He isolated me to control me. It was all about control.

He would try make out that he was sleeping with other women while seeing me. I later found out these were typical Redpill games.

After 2 months of dating, he mentioned he had been apart of MGTOW and Redpill. I didn't know these groups at that time so I asked him to elaborate. He did and it didn't sound good. I told him he shouldn't go on those sites anymore and he agreed. But of course, he lied.

After a few months of a very unhealthy relationship, my friends started getting harassed by him. I knew it was him cause at this point I was being abused by him and knew it. I cut contact.

Then a month later, as I've found with manosphere games, he tried to control me again. He tried to contact me. I told him point blank we are over and that's when I made sure all ties were cut between us.

I know a lot of people here will say Redpill and MGTOW are contradictory but these guys in real life follow an array of these beliefs that don't make sense to begin with.

Also, people here will say "Redpillers leave their exes alone or they are betas".. well, I can tell you Redpill and MGTOW are abusive and abusive people don't leave their ex-girlfriends/ wives alone.

Also, I recently was watching a documentary on a woman who was murdered by her abusive ex-husband and the comment section was all "this is a great victory for MGTOW", "that guy should get out of prison, it was the sluts fault MGTOW" and so on, so don't tell me it isn't a terrorist group and that it isn't is extremely abusive cause it is.

I've been stalked, defamed, harassed, loitered by my abusive ex-MGTOW/ Redpill boyfriend since breaking up with him.

I see a lot of these men think in their delusional state that women are destroying men. It's a cult tactic of "they're the enemy".

These men are really destroying themselves in the process.

MGTOW, Redpill and incels all of those sites couldn't care less about the men who join them. When a terrorist blows himself up cause he is brainwashed into thinking he is going to Heaven, do you think the cult he was apart of gave a care for him? Obviously not, he just blew himself up. Or in Jonestown, do you think the cult gave two cares for anyone who didn't want to drink the cyanide? Nope, the forcibly injected the poison into followers.

If you are struggling with these Redpill/ MGTOW ideologies that have ruined your life, I would STRONGLY recommend you go find professional psychological help.

You can make your life better! You don't have to live in paranoia.

Not everything in life is black and white, women and men.

We have responsibilities as human beings to look after one another and not turn on one another.

EDIT: I will be deleting my account so I won't get any unwanted messages. Stay safe guys :)