Long story short, I missed the window of opportunity with a girl (8/10) I’m working with and fail to escalate properly. She finds someone else – who works under us lol- , and goes cold on me. I cannot next her cause we work together. I over-think, over-analyze and go mad trying my hardest to show her that I do not give a fuck and that I’m an alpha that should be regarded as a prize. Upon reflection I stumble upon something.

So far I have been working so hard to subtly tell her to fuck off and that I’m amazing, and have been going mad when my attempts fail. I externally maintain frame, and stay calm but internally I’m burning. The right path is to work on myself. The right path is to analyze and understand why I’m so determined to show her that I’m alpha, to understand why I care so much rather than fake indifference. It is not about her, it’s all about me. It’s futile to work so hard on maintaining frame externally while internally I am invested and do actually care. On the rare chance that I do succeed in externally maintain frame, I would’ve won nothing. If I work on myself and understand that I am mad, disappointed, sad and see why I am feeling like that ill improve.

It is said that the main difference between sub-reddit seduction and TRP is that TRP is more about actual self-improvement rather than just getting laid. Therefore, next time you’re provoked, or feeling whatever understand that keeping external frame is merely one step and that the next and much more crucial step is understanding your feelings and yourself.